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Can being way too nice and passive cause you to lose friends?

That's what has been happening to me. My friends say if I can't be honest with my feelings and keep sugarcoating and agreeing to protect our feels then we shouldn't be friends. How can they say that? It seems like mean people have more friends than nice passive people.

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JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

Nice try Dana

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MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F

@JarJarBoom: pardon me but you got the wrong person miss

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MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F

@DethComesRipping: Mister. Please stop. I suddenly don't feel safe in this website every so much anymore.

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MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F

@DethComesRipping: YOU ARE EVER SO MEAN! 😞😭

Umile18

Honesty is very important in friendship.

Truth is truth. But HOW you say it is also important.

#keepitreal

Goodlistener · F

Stay nice and find nicer friends . They sound like dumb bitches

MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F

@Goodlistener: don't say that all though they sound mean

RevanUchiha · 26-30, M

I think so...I'm like that and I keep loosing friends...I'd gladly be your friend if you want :)

whateverhappens · 26-30, F

idk about friends but bf maybe ? my bf was super nice to everyone that includes girls so while it may not of been his fault they started liking him they were boldly trying to ruin our relationship which made us argue more so.... basically yea it could be kinda bad for relationships just know what ya doin.

MsAnnThropy

Probably. Some people don't want to be seen or be friends with a doormat. Just some people don't like people like me. Someone who is always aggressive and or mean. Oh well. There are bigger tragedies in the world.

popmol · 22-25, M

its will fuck you up. you should find a perfect middle in between being a horrible friend and a too good friend

icyreb · M

yes.. it hinders getting potential friends, and losing the ones that you already have.

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