This post may contain Mildly Adult content.

Mildly Adult

No Notifications

Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Do women find it embarrasing to buy sex toys?

Top | Newest First | Oldest First

1-50 of 141

1pebbles · 56-60, F

Very useful stress reliever

View 7 more replies »

1pebbles · 56-60, F

@pdockal sorry 😞

pdockal · 56-60, M

@1pebbles all good

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

@1pebbles Definitely 👍

Spectra · 26-30, F

Yea always feel a little shy walking into a sex shop but it’s all a part of the thrill. Plus the staff is always friendly and helpful and make it a comfortable experience

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@Spectra I imagine you have a good collection of toys now 😉

pdockal · 56-60, M

@Spectra

How often do you go ?

WonderGirl · 36-40

Amazon. ;)

SW-User

@WonderGirl discreet and if someone wants to be a porch pirate, they're in for a surprise 😂

pdockal · 56-60, M

@WonderGirl easy piesie

Amberswallows · 22-25, F

I was the first time but find most stores I’ve been to had women working.

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@Amberswallows Probably less embarrassing to buy a toy from a lady who understands your needs 😉😻

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

View 6 more replies »

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@OldMan70 yeah everything before 2020 was a lot more fun. But doesn’t seem like it ever will be again. Sadly.

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@OldMan70 I predict that we will see a resurgence of the pandemic in waves for years to come. This is not behaving like a naturally occurring virus 🦠 and I feel like it’s not. It’s a weaponized strain and it’s not going to just vanish like the last sars cov one or the Spanish flu. I really hope that I’m wrong 🤞. But I don’t think I will be.

TexChik · F

Amazon!

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

Emilie92 · 31-35, F

No not at all

summerwind · 41-45, F

I don't

SarahB · 36-40, F

Not at all.

MaBalzEsHari · M

Just a suggestion..........but if you buy toys that don't feel like a penis.........why not just form a relationship with someone who has a real one?

View 3 more replies »

MaBalzEsHari · M

@OliRos Thank you. I do try.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@MaBalzEsHari I've thrown mine away.

[quote]I use mine to help others that buy online and then throw them away because they are not big enough or feel good enough[/quote]

I'm one of those women who threw the them away. It had a lot to do with size! And, it doesn't feel like a man. They were far too big though. Online order made it seem like "normal size of penis". Huh?

Either way --- how does a woman lubricate herself naturally with a dildo (big or small or just right)?

Garbage.

OliRos · 18-21, F

@perceptivei.😲 Never use garbage for lubrication!

2cool4school · 46-50, F

Do guys find embarrassing to buy tengas ?? I think it just depends on the person.
Japanese culture applies technology to just about everything. I don’t think it’s a bad thing but it’s definitely unique.

[image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted][image deleted]

OldGrandDad · M

I've been in a handful of stores. And it seems to me I was outnumbered by the women in the store. I noticed no sense of embarrassment on their part. Nor should there have been.

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

Nope.

OliRos · 18-21, F

I bought my first on line. My second in a store. It was an okay experience, I was able to talk to the staff about various features, what I wanted.

(I could tell you the story about how the beautiful young assistant took me into a demonstration suite, where she showed me how to get the best out of it... but that would be pure fantasy! 🤭)

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@OliRos I’d like to hear that fantasy haha 😉

OliRos · 18-21, F

@LondonCowboy 😂😂 I am sure you would.

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@OliRos Yes , written in great detail with lots of descriptive elements . I look forward to reading it 😉📚

perceptivei · 36-40, F

Never have in public. And, I've only bought some online. Tried it once. Threw it in garbage. I probably didn't know what I was buying... it was a dildo. Very weird experience. Didn't feel like a penis. 😬

SW-User

Nope

TallMtnMedic · M

Ive known a couple that were, so Id buy one or two that they pointed out.

nevergiveup · M

We go together and get toys from shops.

caesar7 · 61-69, M

They shouldn't....

ThatGirlSara · 22-25, F

I have a few sex toys - some my friends got me, but I also got them sex toys so either way I still had to buy them? xD I don't mind it. I mean, sure it can be a little weird but just do it. You live once, orgasms are great, the people you're buying them from have probably done the same, so fuck it, you know? And that is if you're buying them from a sex shop - you can get them online now.

View 2 more replies »

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@ThatGirlSara when they get delivered to your home, what is the return label?

Th1nkF1rst · 70-79, M

@samueltyler2 NOT
[big]"Horny Jill's Sex Toy Warehouse"
"Big Dick's Dildo Discount Den" [/big]

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@ThatGirlSara No shame where you buy them or which ones you use ... it’s all healthy and perfectly natural to play Solo 🌹

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

walabby · 61-69, M

You get yours at ASPCA?? :D

ron122 · 41-45, M

@12bknotted You don't find it embarrassing because your very confident in who you are and what you enjoy. I like that about you

LeggyOldWench · 51-55, F

I think of it kinda like a guy buy a new power tool for himself. What ever gets the job done!!😊

Myself11 · 61-69, M

Very true and very well said

kinkymech · M

exactly.. I always say that sex toys are used as an enhancement not a replacement

playdaily · 26-30, F

Not for me. Not one bit.

View 1 more replies »

Eyesropen · 61-69, C

Hey, I recognize that Lelo toy!those things rock!@playdaily

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@playdaily you're totally missing out on all the fun. 😉
Edit: hope I don’t sound critical. I was just trying to make a sarcastic remark. You know what you want and don’t want. Glad that you do you.

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@playdaily btw can I borrow your avatar it's been one of those days. 🙄

Glossy · F

Nope.

View 1 more replies »

pdockal · 56-60, M

@Glossy
damn girl thats awesome
are you still adding to the collection

Blackbeauty · 36-40, F

@Glossy love your collection

pdockal · 56-60, M

@Blackbeauty how does yours compare

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

View 3 more replies »

pdockal · 56-60, M

@2cool4school?????

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@pdockal [quote] @Danirose how old were you when you made your first purchase[/quote]
Really !!!??

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

Myself11 · 61-69, M

They shouldn't they are buying something they can get enjoyment from

View 3 more replies »

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@2cool4school I guess so 😎 And you are more experienced than me with Toys no doubt 🌹

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@LondonCowboy I’ll take that as a compliment

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@2cool4school It was meant as one 😎🌹😘

Blackbeauty · 36-40, F

I love toys gives you a orgasm every time hehe

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@Blackbeauty Such a Naughty Girl 😎💦😻

graphite · 61-69, M

@Blackbeauty Fabulous!

account123 · 80-89, M

@Blackbeauty I use my tongue.

HopelessLeila · 26-30, F

I definitely don't.

SW-User

no i don't! i love mine!

Dirtygirl81 · 26-30, F

It's always good for a laugh to go to the grocery store and only buy a huge cucumber and some lube and look at the cashiers face lol

Moosepantspatty · 31-35, M

@Dirtygirl81 gotta buy the biggest one they got or it ain't worth it

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@Dirtygirl81 It I was the cashier I would wink at You 😎😘

tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F

Not at all I bought myself several and love my rabbit

playdaily · 26-30, F

the rabbit is amazingly fun:::)))))

tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F

@playdaily: it hits the spot!

playdaily · 26-30, F

@tallpowerhouseblonde: yes......usually multiple times❤

Amylynne · 26-30, F

I like to make them show me, take it out ask for reviews

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Amylynne does it embarrass them?

Amylynne · 26-30, F

why else do it?

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

You are such a tease. Do you then buy them?

Kateygurl · F

Why would it be embarrassing if everyone in the store is there to buy the same thing that you are?

2cool4school · 46-50, F

Maybe when I had to show my ID when I was 18.
The store I use if needed has a primarily female staff and would be considered upscale for adult toy stores. But it's worth it and not much extra than Amazon plus they know and try everything no joke.

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

At least they can first hand recommend something.

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@PTCdresser57 yep that and the creepy factor is almost nil. And they get good stuff ftom all over because the employees really love their work :)

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@PTCdresser57 They'er called 'Good Vibes' too gotta love a clever name ;)

RyeRumors · 41-45, F

When I was younger, I bought a few in a sex store and it was embarrassing. But I used to be a lot more embarrassed about things back then. It was the only way back then. I was there with a friend, but I didn't want her to know I wanted one, so I went back later by myself to get it.

Now, the ones I have I bought online and it's so much easier. of course you're kind of left guessing if you'll like it until you try it, but that's the case anyway.

Really there's nothing to be embarrassed about, but the stigma remains. I think all young women should have a couple of them.

Ptolemy · M

Why would they? Either they are buying it online anonymously or somewhere that everyone else is doing the same thing.

Bet regardless, who cates what other people think.

Now if she was using one on the frozen food aisle at Walmart... Then she should be very embarrassed..

View 1 more replies »

2cool4school · 46-50, F

@Ptolemy I didn't think anyone looked at you in Walmart unless you're wider than your height? Guess that's a myth ?

wetncthru · F

@Ptolemy Sadly, few at Walmart would REALLY appreciate seeing so in the frozen food aisle ...

Dirtygirl81 · 26-30, F

@Ptolemy they sell them at CVS where I live lol

Angelica32 · 26-30, F

They shouldn’t feel embarrassed. I don’t. 😂

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

MsLibrarian · 31-35, F

@Angelica32 I agree.

beachlover54321

I used to but not any more.😊

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

@beachlover54321 That's good, do you buy them often?

pdockal · 56-60, M

@beachlover54321 so whats in your collection

aaaabbbb

@beachlover54321 why change of heart and mind?

RainBisou · F

This girl doesnt. 😉

LikeMind · M

If you have a collection maybe you could lay them out for a photo. Would you need a [i]wide angle lens[/i][ to get them all in the shot? 😉 @RainBisou]

RainBisou · F

@LikeMind a girl never shows all her secret sexual devices lol

SW-User

I feel a bit embarrassed buying in person... hence why I prefer online shopping. I definitely financially support Adam and Eve🤣

View 1 more replies »

This comment is hidden. Show Comment

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@Soccergirl2016 Big Black Ones i imagine 😎😘

Blackbeauty · 36-40, F

@SW-User I should try online

Suethenudist · 31-35, F

Not emmbarresed here.

Lena200 · 56-60, F

At first I was. Second time was much easier. Now it's like I walk in to a candy store 😉

View 3 more replies »

LikeMind · M

@Lena200 I'll remember that when I'm shopping for you! 😉

Lena200 · 56-60, F

@LikeMind Thanks !!! Very considerate 🍭

LikeMind · M

@Lena200
What length and girth would you like? 😃😃

lilacs · 41-45, F

No. People that make women feel uncomfortable for doing it are low lifes.

View 3 more replies »

ThatGirlSara · 22-25, F

@lilacs right on! ❤️

xmedleft · 51-55, M

@lilacs I don't think the OP meant that the staff or other people there would directly embarrass someone for being in the store -- that'd be a stupid business model.
I think, rather that she meant does one feel embarrassed personally walking in. Some people did indicate that that 1st time they were -- some level of conditioning from their youth probably -- but that they got over it.