Topher1972 · 51-55, M
You’re not even 45 which isn’t old either. I think you’re beautiful. There’s no reason why you wouldn’t find love again.
Magenta · F
An older woman??!
You're age is prime to me. not even close to old.
There's always hope! 🌟
You're age is prime to me. not even close to old.
There's always hope! 🌟
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Magenta Actually I agree 100% that is when women are at their prime in my opinon.

SW-User
@Magenta what you said. 👊
Magenta · F
@JimboSaturn I certainly was. And beyond that too.
@SW-User 🌹
@SW-User 🌹
Eyeinthesky · 56-60, F
You never heard 40 year woman is new 20’s and 60 year old is new 40’s? 😁
You are still young!
You are still young!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
As long as you keep thinking that way you never will. Those thoughts are embedding into your subconscious mind. Think about what you want and dwell on that. And your age is not old. You have a lot of life left in you.
Northwest · M
Do you really think you're an older woman? Or are you using this as a conversation starter.
Come to think of it, this is probably a cultural thing. In some countries, 36-40, would constitute older, but, generally speaking, not in western societies. Especially when families are prioritizing quality of life for their kids, by delaying having kids until they're in their late 30s or 40s, when they're financially secure.
Come to think of it, this is probably a cultural thing. In some countries, 36-40, would constitute older, but, generally speaking, not in western societies. Especially when families are prioritizing quality of life for their kids, by delaying having kids until they're in their late 30s or 40s, when they're financially secure.

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You should work on your attitude. Age is obviously an insecurity of yours when it really shouldn't be. Plus, I don't think you're "old" at all
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
You're not even 40 yet lmao
Stop hanging around those 18 yr olds and find a more lucrative job that allows you to make the same money without being around them. Maybe camming?
Stop hanging around those 18 yr olds and find a more lucrative job that allows you to make the same money without being around them. Maybe camming?
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
Take the time to find yourself. Your true, best version of yourself.
51 in an "arrangement". Happy that way for now.
51 in an "arrangement". Happy that way for now.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
After receiving so many notifications of people responding to this post, I finally looked at your profile.
You probably think you are old because of the line of work you are in. Yes, that is a young woman's game, for the most part. But for crying out loud, don't let that skew your perspective of what the real world is like.
You probably think you are old because of the line of work you are in. Yes, that is a young woman's game, for the most part. But for crying out loud, don't let that skew your perspective of what the real world is like.
Punches · 46-50, F
@DrWatson
I imagine working in the adult entertainment field for so long, that is probably not a typical 9 to 5 where you can leave work at work. It is probably more of a lifestyle.
Besides that, there comes an age when women "hit the wall" which is when they CAN date or still get laid but not necessarily with the men they really want. Most of the women on here worrying about being single the rest of their lives are around 35 - 40.
You already know all this because you have plenty of life experience, I am just rambling.
don't let that skew your perspective of what the real world is like.
Most of us make our own "reality". If we live a certain lifestyle for so many years then it is hard to change our way of thinking and habits. I imagine working in the adult entertainment field for so long, that is probably not a typical 9 to 5 where you can leave work at work. It is probably more of a lifestyle.
Besides that, there comes an age when women "hit the wall" which is when they CAN date or still get laid but not necessarily with the men they really want. Most of the women on here worrying about being single the rest of their lives are around 35 - 40.
You already know all this because you have plenty of life experience, I am just rambling.
blackdiamonds · 36-40, F
@Punches This exactly! I'm glad someone understands
Punches · 46-50, F
@blackdiamonds Thanks, I wasn't sure how that post would go over.
Budwick · 70-79, M
Attitude is everything.
Don't be a sour Sally.
The problem is NOT age.
Don't be a sour Sally.
The problem is NOT age.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
You are not an "older woman."
Maybe you grew up in a small town where most people got married by age 22 or so, but that is not the way the whole world works. There are plenty of men who seek women your age.
Maybe you grew up in a small town where most people got married by age 22 or so, but that is not the way the whole world works. There are plenty of men who seek women your age.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
36-40 is not old. You haven't lived half your life yet. And I'm sure that there are plenty of potential husbands out there.
cd4259 · 61-69, M
My fiance and I met and fell in love when she was 38, don't give up. Maybe just change your mindset.
HollyW · 18-21, F
There's a lot of singles your age to choose from. You must make it happen because they probably forgot how to date.
blackdiamonds · 36-40, F
@Punches The older men want younger women and the older women don't want any games or bs
calicuz · 56-60, M
Wait till you get to be my age, you want to be invisible.
Funlov · M
I see your age you’re not old I’m 42. My life is full of excitement ventures every day don’t think that way change it.😊
bijouxbroussard · F
I don’t know where you live, but considering that women tend to live through their 80s, 36-40 isn’t even really middle aged. Don’t write yourself off. 😳
The last marriage proposal I received (which I declined) was at age 54.
The last marriage proposal I received (which I declined) was at age 54.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Older ?
Don't look and enjoy yourself and he'll find you
Don't look and enjoy yourself and he'll find you
exexec · 70-79, C
My wife was the "older" woman when she was in her mid-30's and 20-something guys kept trying to seduce her. That really helped her self-confidence.
Lilymoon · F
Omg you're not old. I've been married twice...the first one I was only 20. I wish I would have stayed single.
those who thought they were "only women" lose this identity as they get older. those who have no other identity become nothing. those who are capable, switch to another identity.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Sorry to hear that. I kind of know the feeling.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
You have a ways to go before that

SW-User
Wuuutttt that is not true at all 😆
Djofull · 46-50, M
you feel invisible, but you are not to the eyes of others
Funlov · M
Your my age you be just fine
melbeacher · 61-69, M
I think older women can be incredibly attractive !
Funlov · M
@melbeacher always for the most an older lady is always more beautiful or class. I’ll take a lady no I’m 42 but I’ll take a lady that noon is in her 50s 60s over somebody in her 20s 30s all day long smarter prettier.
PicturesOfABetterTomorrow · 41-45, M
I would hardly consider you an older woman. You have plenty of years to enjoy.
Ferric67 · M
You are every bit as gorgeous as any younger woman
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pdockal · 56-60, M
Why do you need a husband
Miram · 31-35, F
Only fked up men go for big age gaps.
Nasty · 31-35, M
Your far from old
BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
Some men like older women
Funlov · M
Somebody was just talking about this this is got nothing to do with your post about newcomers and how young they are and are they real is their age real in the stupid things that they say I do they think about the stuff before they type it and put it in common sense does not win on here because some of them have none
Adrift · 61-69, F
Your not that old and heading into the age of cougar.
When you get to your 50s thats your new discovery I am doing my own thing and I dont need a man age.
Then you start heading to dont give a f*k blvd around the age of 60 and want people to just leave you the hell alone.
70s, well I will get back to you on that if im still around.
When you get to your 50s thats your new discovery I am doing my own thing and I dont need a man age.
Then you start heading to dont give a f*k blvd around the age of 60 and want people to just leave you the hell alone.
70s, well I will get back to you on that if im still around.
Wolffy · 56-60, M
Older woman I would never have said you were an older woman you're very lovely for your age and you're far from visible and anyone that cash you a side is a fool just saying
LookingIn · M
Well from your profile pic you’re gorgeous, damn strange taste in nails, but you’re gorgeous 😁
blackdiamonds · 36-40, F
@LookingIn The nails are my signature. They stay
So if you're not married between the ages of 36-40 it means you're dispensable?

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I'm 49, I don't feel like that, maybe you're just stuck in a weird funk rn
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You’re not even old though
RocktheHouse · M
Unless you are rich, what will you have to offer? Pussy used up, saggy boobs, wrinkles on your face, ass gone flat.. not attractive.
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RocktheHouse · M
@Nihiless There are better options. The Catholic Church is always in need of Roman Sisters.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@Nihiless This is probably nothing but a subtle invitation for women in their 40s to post sexy selfies on SW or maybe even DM their selfies to this user. Hahahaha
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@IamCuriousBabe Yes "prove me wrong!"