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Oh dear apparently my mother is getting territorial and being mean at her assisted living home.

My brother was telling me she's been very mood swingy and has been a terror. There are a bunch of new people and they don't know she likes a certain table in the dining room. She's threatened to "show them" while storming out or she's been rude to them.
4meAndyou · F
I specialized in dementia care when I worked with the elderly. Sundowning, or rage and temper fits at sundown, are normal. Anger is one of the few emotions that brings them satisfaction especially with people they recognize...inspiring anger, as well.
Poor thing, it's so rough losing your independence and being stuck somewhere that's not your own home.
deepblacknothingness · 56-60, M
@adorabelle It may have to do with her dementia too but I agree it hasn't been easy on her.
@deepblacknothingness That's true, I heard recently there's a "violent stage" of dementia.
PatKirby · M
@deepblacknothingness

Just be there for her when she needs you.
IM5688 · 61-69, M
It's not easy getting older and losing their independence.
deepblacknothingness · 56-60, M
@IM5688 It might be something with her dementia too
IM5688 · 61-69, M
@deepblacknothingness Unfortunately, for many people, dementia is part of their aging process.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@deepblacknothingness] sorry that is the case perhaps the mood swings could indicate there are other things going on with her and need investigating . if it just a case of her marking her territory and throwing her weight perhaps she needs sitting down and talking to . on the basis it is a residential home and there is more than her and she needs too be tolerant and respect other residents
That sometimes happens with elderly people.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I am sorry. That has to be sad for all involved.
Took her table did they?
PatKirby · M
Sounds like she's in the process of adjustment and staking out her claim. The others better not mess with her, or else!

My mother worked at an assisted living center for several years and said this is common. Things should calm down after a while.
Neoerectus · M
Make sure she has adequate hydration. Very common malady in older folks. Throws chemistry off.
HannahSky · F
Good for her. They need to know the rules.

 
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