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OliverM · 22-25, M
@maybesomeday Uh yah you will need a coat in the UK in October. Almost definitely. It's raining at least half the month, and often cold enough to see your breath until February. I agree with what Lucyy said earlier. Raincoat over a cardigan, unless the weather report promises no rain. And even then I would keep it in the car just in case.
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Lucyy · 22-25, F
Any shoes that match the color will work. White would be the easiest default rather than color-matching
Given the location and time of year, I would hope the wedding is inside, or at least under cover. If its inside, a raincoat would be appropriate to wear over it, and if they planned accordingly they should have a coat drop-off once you get inside. You could also wear a cardigan (White skintone, or black could work, or if you can get the color-matching right, light purple would look amazing with the subtle shade of the flowers). But if you did choose a cardigan, as would be needed if its outside and just
covered or even if you just want a shoulder cover once you're inside, you would need to plan for your hair, which you probably wouldn't want to get wet. In which case you would still want to walk in with a coat over it (doesn't need to match, since its for cover and not part of the outfit and should be removed once inside) or with a hat. But if you aren't good with fashion I would probably forgo the Hat, since it's really, really easy to ruin the vibe and throw off the whole outfit with a weird hat lol.
Given the location and time of year, I would hope the wedding is inside, or at least under cover. If its inside, a raincoat would be appropriate to wear over it, and if they planned accordingly they should have a coat drop-off once you get inside. You could also wear a cardigan (White skintone, or black could work, or if you can get the color-matching right, light purple would look amazing with the subtle shade of the flowers). But if you did choose a cardigan, as would be needed if its outside and just
covered or even if you just want a shoulder cover once you're inside, you would need to plan for your hair, which you probably wouldn't want to get wet. In which case you would still want to walk in with a coat over it (doesn't need to match, since its for cover and not part of the outfit and should be removed once inside) or with a hat. But if you aren't good with fashion I would probably forgo the Hat, since it's really, really easy to ruin the vibe and throw off the whole outfit with a weird hat lol.
Lucyy · 22-25, F
@maybesomeday I would go with black, white, or colormatched flats if heels don't work. Unless its noted as an informal wedding, or has a rustic or cottagecore theme, I would avoid boots. I suppose exceptions could be made based on the specific boots, but that would generally be a no-go for a wedding. I would also avoid the pale-pink, unless the picture you shared makes the outfit look like it has less pink than it does. A crop-blouse could also work, as long as the collar of it came down far enough to show the white top underneath. Otherwise it would be easy to look like it was out of place, similar to a shirt thrown over a dress. That's pretty common with one-piece outfits (jumpsuits and dresses) if the style of the crop blouse doesn't compliment the build of the outfit beneath it.
No problem lol. I worked in a wedding boutique for a little while before covid shut everything down, and picked up some stuff lol.
No problem lol. I worked in a wedding boutique for a little while before covid shut everything down, and picked up some stuff lol.
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@Lucyy Again, thanks heaps, you've helped me so much and given me more ideas on what to look for. Hopefully I can complete the outfit soon otherwise I'll have to go back to looking at dresses and that was a nightmare in itself lol!!
Lucyy · 22-25, F
@maybesomeday No problem lol. Just make sure if your cardigan or cover ends up being white, it isn't really long and flowey. White is alright as an accent color, but not as the main color of dress unless you're the bride. I would aim for a light purple cardigan if you can find one. I think that would look really nice.
Sometimes going into a store helps too, so you can see them on you. If you cant finish this outfit and struggle online, maybe give a store a try. Thrift stores and discount stores like Ross are Actually super common places to look for wedding outfits, since its fairly cheap for a specific event, but can still be a quality dress and fit well. Or, of course, there are actual the boutiques, but those tend to cost more. Online shopping would definitely be the most convenient if it works for you though
Sometimes going into a store helps too, so you can see them on you. If you cant finish this outfit and struggle online, maybe give a store a try. Thrift stores and discount stores like Ross are Actually super common places to look for wedding outfits, since its fairly cheap for a specific event, but can still be a quality dress and fit well. Or, of course, there are actual the boutiques, but those tend to cost more. Online shopping would definitely be the most convenient if it works for you though
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
October is the month during which the temperature falls from a warm September to a cold November.A jacket with matching skirt will look great.For deciding on footware and taking an outer layer such as a stylish coat first check for the weather and temperature for that day.The BBC weather app can be downloaded to your phone and is very accurate with regular updates and the weather for two weeks or so.Mild is no outer layer and sandals,colder is shoes and a warm coat.If you are going by car you can wear flats then change into heels at the venue.Some clothes shops offer a free personal shopper to help you pick out a suitable outfit.You just tell them you are looking for a wedding outfit and they do all the work for you.M &S is one of those outlet and has a shop in lots of shopping malls.Reasonable prices.Choose an outfit that you can wear again out socially to get good value.Buy your outfit here in England we have big shopping malls.One trip to a mall to buy everything you need.Even your hair can be cut/styled and you can buy makeup,get your nails done.You may wish to avoid white as some brides don't like others to wear the same colour as they do. Trust me I'm English and live right here in England.
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maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@NCCindy Thank you, that's a great idea as well!
My partner has just told me the jumpsuit looks like fancy pyjamas so now I'm worried 🤣
My partner has just told me the jumpsuit looks like fancy pyjamas so now I'm worried 🤣
Disguised · 56-60, M
Hi... so im a male... know zero about fashion.. but people accept me as i am. Its you they invited not your wardrobe and you are travelling so far. Its going to be a long day.. be comfortable... wear comfortable... otherwise you won't enjoy the main event as much as you should. Heels make an outfit true... but blisters and wobbly walks spoil an outfit. Wear comfortable shoes... they are your feet and they deserve to be looked after. Especially for the dancing.. I live in the UK.. October can be cold the first frost normally are in November but can be earlier.. although with global warming they seem to be much later. I have had to carry cardigans, shawls and wraps for my wife. Better to have and not use... most importantly enjoy the day... enjoy the uk.... Dx
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@Disguised Thank you, you make some excellent points.
davidlewis · M
Fascinators / Hats / Headwear
I would be the last to advise anyone on fashion, however I admire your thinking in asking for advice here or elsewhere so I just thought to drop in Fascinators / Hats / Headwear - have looked through the advice already and see no mention.
Are you attending both the service and reception? Is the service in a church?
Perhaps you would not wish to trouble the bride with questions but maybe she could put you in touch with a friend who is also attending help out - recommend say a hairdresser and such.
I do hope you enjoy your trip to the UK -
I would be the last to advise anyone on fashion, however I admire your thinking in asking for advice here or elsewhere so I just thought to drop in Fascinators / Hats / Headwear - have looked through the advice already and see no mention.
Are you attending both the service and reception? Is the service in a church?
Perhaps you would not wish to trouble the bride with questions but maybe she could put you in touch with a friend who is also attending help out - recommend say a hairdresser and such.
I do hope you enjoy your trip to the UK -
bugeye · 26-30, F
hmmm i'd def avoid white. that's a no-go. does it have a dress code? black tie / smart casual etc?
otherwise i'd suggest asking the bridal party themselves. no harm in asking n it shows you wanna make the effort and dress appropriately.
personally at my Bf's brothers wedding i wore a nice plain black dress. not too short (about knee length/just above. it was cute but most importantly doesn't stand out too much or overshadow the bride. :D
otherwise i'd suggest asking the bridal party themselves. no harm in asking n it shows you wanna make the effort and dress appropriately.
personally at my Bf's brothers wedding i wore a nice plain black dress. not too short (about knee length/just above. it was cute but most importantly doesn't stand out too much or overshadow the bride. :D
funfan · 51-55, M
@StickyToffeePudding That's excellent advice.
funfan · 51-55, M
So much great advice was given by my fellow members in this community. I salute all of you with a 🍾 toast. 🥂
Better idea is to just sleep it off post oiling your head to get up only after 24 hours of restful n uninterrupted sleep.
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spice1 · M
From a male point of view please don't wear that to the wedding it looks absolutely boring, wear a dress something a little more exciting.
maybesomeday · 31-35, F
@spice1 I was hoping to fancy it up a bit, but fair point. Thanks.
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SomeMichGuy · M
Any ladies have any ideas?!?!
No. NO women have ANY ideas, notions, suggestions, rules, etc., about fashion. At all. Ever. No. Nope. Nada. Nichts. Zilch.
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Why would a smart thinking women want to waste her time going to such a shit hole as the UK?
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Lilnonames · F
Call up the ones who invited u to the wedding