Let's talk about the online reputation trashers.....
I've was on EP for 2 years and here since day one... although I left 3 times, deleted completely only to come back.
Over the years, I USED to be a flirt, and yeah I've had one too many online flings... over the years i have heart my heart broken by women on here, whom there after were trashing me... called me psycho, crazy, insane, why? Because I got hurt when they dumped me for someone younger or more cool ones and because I believed their lies about them caring about me and believed them saying I love you to me.. words that are being taking so very too lightly and said way too easily online and for them saying they wanted a relationship with me. I am an affectionate dependent, i asume myself, but Ive never used someone nor have I have ever forced someone to be with me that didn't want too, ive never hurt someone willingly nor have I ever played someone just for the fun of it like a few did me.
I've have had some people trash me, like i was an horrible person.. and still to this day, i know a few, whom Ive never been with, but whom I know had feelings for me who are trashing me on here .
I havent flirted with anyone on here for at least 3 years because i was in a relationship with someone from here, yes who I had met in person, but seriously I dont think I will ever flirt here again...after what came to light recently concerning a friend of mine
Listen, its very easy to accuse someone of flirting inappropriately with you and being overly sexual with you, to try to tarnish their reputation... its easy to say, i didnt want to, i never was into her... but yet, screenshot of conversations proves otherwise..why trash someone's name for something you were into and responding with very much interest in the advances.... why accuse someone of being a predator when it was mutual deep flirt.
It sad how people love to put down others, and will believe words over proofs... it happened to me so many times, i know exactly how my friend feels... I mean what is it? Cause you know deep down you can never be with this person irl? Is it jealousy? Is it cause you think it will make you the cool kid? It is because you need attention? Why, what does it bring you to trash someone like that? Yeah Ive seen the screen shots... there was NO *predator* , there was NO *non willing* flirting, there was NO forcing anyone... it was *MUTUAL* flirting and sexual talk exchange...
If you dont wanna be flirted with then dont PM someone that does, dont flirt back on comments, just leave and or stay silent, because if you are flirting back, makes you an active party of the conversation...dont be a jerk and assume your part instead of destroying someone's reputation
Over the years, I USED to be a flirt, and yeah I've had one too many online flings... over the years i have heart my heart broken by women on here, whom there after were trashing me... called me psycho, crazy, insane, why? Because I got hurt when they dumped me for someone younger or more cool ones and because I believed their lies about them caring about me and believed them saying I love you to me.. words that are being taking so very too lightly and said way too easily online and for them saying they wanted a relationship with me. I am an affectionate dependent, i asume myself, but Ive never used someone nor have I have ever forced someone to be with me that didn't want too, ive never hurt someone willingly nor have I ever played someone just for the fun of it like a few did me.
I've have had some people trash me, like i was an horrible person.. and still to this day, i know a few, whom Ive never been with, but whom I know had feelings for me who are trashing me on here .
I havent flirted with anyone on here for at least 3 years because i was in a relationship with someone from here, yes who I had met in person, but seriously I dont think I will ever flirt here again...after what came to light recently concerning a friend of mine
Listen, its very easy to accuse someone of flirting inappropriately with you and being overly sexual with you, to try to tarnish their reputation... its easy to say, i didnt want to, i never was into her... but yet, screenshot of conversations proves otherwise..why trash someone's name for something you were into and responding with very much interest in the advances.... why accuse someone of being a predator when it was mutual deep flirt.
It sad how people love to put down others, and will believe words over proofs... it happened to me so many times, i know exactly how my friend feels... I mean what is it? Cause you know deep down you can never be with this person irl? Is it jealousy? Is it cause you think it will make you the cool kid? It is because you need attention? Why, what does it bring you to trash someone like that? Yeah Ive seen the screen shots... there was NO *predator* , there was NO *non willing* flirting, there was NO forcing anyone... it was *MUTUAL* flirting and sexual talk exchange...
If you dont wanna be flirted with then dont PM someone that does, dont flirt back on comments, just leave and or stay silent, because if you are flirting back, makes you an active party of the conversation...dont be a jerk and assume your part instead of destroying someone's reputation
