Guys if you like a girl and you borrow some money from her, what is the one reason you wouldn't return her money on time? (Even if you have the money)

he's too broke to pay. no mind games, just broke vibes

You don't lend money to friends, family, and significant others. You give it to them. I don't know why he's not paying you back, just remember this experience and don't do it again.

1. Opportunity to talk to her again and again.
2. She doesn't forgets you.

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It’s a controlling thing to do. If someone owed me money and then didn’t pay me back on time I would ask why. If the reason didn’t cause me to be sympathetic I might charge them some more money to borrow and also tell them if they are late again that they would owe me even more.

Once the money was repaid I wouldn’t loan them money again or I would only loan them money with upfront fees.

Use it to see them again or for them to reach out again. Or completely forgot.

Oh um.

I would feel pressure to pay her back as quick as possible but I'd keep her updated on my finances as a result. and be like I have credit card debt currently and if she were like pay them first I would listen to her. But she'll get hers. Just late.

First of all he should not borrow money from her just as per my culture 🙂
And if he borrowed and not returning it to her then then that must be he is saving for her future

I can’t see that happening at all

I try to pay back any money I borrow to start with, and if it’s a girl I like then I sure don’t wanna screw it up

The real reason -

He is a broke-ass muthah fuggah who isn't have no damned job and is probably behind on child support.

Does he have the money?
I have no idea because this is not a situation I would ever find myself in. My first thought is he just can't afford to pay you back.

There would be no reason not to give her the money.

None. It would be repaid.

Loser doesn't care. Like means nothing

One I wouldn't borrow money from any lady, woman, girl or friend for that matter. Two If I did I would pay them back when I said I would unless I were dead. In current times it's very difficult to make ends meet for many people, why put undue stress or strain on others we value?

A lot of guys of my generation would see borrowing money from a woman they were romantically interested in as losing face with her to begin with. Not repaying it would be the height of disrespect.

The only reason I wouldn't return it is if I didn't have it or if there was no opportunity to return it (like we couldn't meet up or something).

I think even if there was a break up I'd return it.

Drop the fool