Do you really really want to know the answer to your most pressing question?

@BlueVeins Would you like to hear a theory?

@SW-User yeah

@BlueVeins Children from birth to about 5-6 years need a lot of co-regulation from parents and/or care-givers. Unfortunately, most parents aren't able to provide this, either via ignorance or their own personal issues. That child who doesn't learn how to regulate themselves in childhood finds themselves with various coping mechanisms, shunning parts of themselves into the shadow etc ...and therefore their adult life feels dysfunctional.
I've said all this in very shallow terms - there is a lot more depth to this that I could not type.

@SW-User Just as I am! You are a constant delight.

@PoetryNEmotion Big hugs. :)

@SW-User Grizzly bear huggggggggggggggggggggggsssssssssssssss. I have to go be a warrior. Til soon, Aido.

@kodiac Yeah, it's natural to feel that way.

@kodiac I don't think that is the question, Kodi. I mean I understand what you are saying to a degree. But that question will not have any answers. We can discuss this in pms should you wish.

@kodiac I have left you words, Kodi. Love to you.

@assemblingaknob I'm sorry you feel this way.

Haha 😂.
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@SW-User That sounds wise.😂

I know 😉
I’ve learned a long time ago that women are right when there right and even right when there wrong 😉
And that’s all I have to say about that 🤐 @SW-User

@SW-User I know buddy, i absolutely love that type of joking around. I do it a lot too! 💜
Thanks for the first part too :)

@SW-User Anytime. I keep dropping golden nuggets like those willy nilly. 😂

@SW-User Wait, i just noticed, you have a F instead of M and here i was calling you all sorts of M references. See what i mean by dumb now? 🤣

@OneDayMore That's a really tough situation.

@PhoenixPhail 🙏

@LilithoftheTrees I hope that is resolved soon.

@SW-User me too, thank you.

@SW-User


One of my favorite hug images..I hate the emoji

@bookerdana Oh yeah I remember, you're not one for emojis. And you have some of the most amazing hug images.

@bookerdana That's so evocative and romantic.

@SW-User you still remember a lot more detail than I do. I've been having dreams that feel significant but I can't remember them.
And wow I really enjoyed reading those. ❤️

@SW-User I am glad you enjoyed reading them. :)

But my time on this site is coming to an end very soon. I have a beam of light to catch.

So long, dear friend. All the best. Is it over or has it just begun? (Mysterious, ethereal music playing).

@SW-User It begins and it ends, no? There is no beginning and there is no end........you be well. We will meet again, some day.
All the best to you.

@JustNik Oh. Is that scary or freeing?

@SW-User both.

@JustNik I think both your heart and your head know your answer.

@alan20 is that a question that makes you sad or just curious?

@SW-User Sad, my friend. Or to be more accurate : I ask myself it when I'm feeling sad. I'm not asking it so much today !

@SW-User I always think my kind of questions would no longer be wanted on this platform, so thank you for saying that.

That must be a very exciting question you have.

@SW-User if you ever start an ig page or blog I'll def follow you, and yeah it's my motivation for everything lol

@SW-User nope, I meant that I can’t ask the person I want to ask

@IamBack Oh. Well that sucks.

@SW-User yes ma’am it sure does

@JustGoneNow Sweety, I don't even know what to say. I can't even begin to understand what you go through. But I hope that you find in yourself a way that makes life better.

@SW-User ty 🖤🤗 I mean, it’s been hard, scary, confusing, and really rough sometimes… but there’s been joy too. I’ve even found someone to kiss my scars and tell me that I’m beautiful, so there’s that. 🦋

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4240986-trigger-warning-We-all-have-insecurities-We-all

@SW-User I never take for granted the good days. 🖤

@SethGreene531 Would the unknown be so bad?

@SW-User In this case, devastatingly so; yes.

@Keeper Why are you thinking so much of him?👀 See, I got balls to ask difficult qns too. 😂

@userfawkes1105 Ignorance feels like bliss.. until something drops on the head and then there is panic. Lol.

@SW-User most panic and anxiety reside in thought alone. It's the uncertainty that makes us panic. Uncertainty and panic to theoretical outcomes in our mind. Mind is powerful can uplift or drop you.

@userfawkes1105 that is very true.

When life gives you wild strawberries 🍓, make wild jelly 😉@CrazyMusicLover

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Such a show off 😌@CrazyMusicLover

@MrSmooTh Who is that qn for?👀

@SW-User I remember Dewms matched us.

@MrSmooTh lol you must have a great memory. I forgot about that. But yes, yes I am your SWsoulmate.... soulmates who never talk. 🙏

@SW-User I think I know your question. 🤗

@JohnOinger I really liked him in Peaky Blinders. Have you watched that? I'm not doing him though, and he is not doing me either. 😂

@SW-User yes. Lol

@SW-User coz that is The Fact.

@Mindfulness Do you have less pressing questions?

@SW-User I have many questions, but none of them important in the great scheme of things, and sometimes ignorance is bliss.

@Degbeme dig deep deggy.

@SW-User so you're open to it?

@SW-User Fo sure 😊

@SW-User 🤗

@Chelsiegirl What do you think?

@SW-User well im a nurse.. and the only big expense i have is having a sex change and that will be done in a few years.. i should be ok.

@Justsimple Something that feels urgent.

@SW-User That is one way of looking at it. You don't like to make plans then?

@SW-User Can there ever be those kind of definitives?