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What do you say about those who try to prove that they're better looking than you? (even if they're not)

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SW-User

They try to [i]prove[/i]? That’s funny. I think they don’t believe it themselves.

pillowprincess · F

Nothing, I tell them nothing but will roll my eyes

Remmy · F

I don't worry about it at all. If they want to think they are better looking that is fine with me. I accept who I am

QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F

Why argue? You’re obviously not going to change their mind, so why waste your energy?

Elinoria · 100+, F

They have a problem with envy.
If you don't mind that kind of bs, keep hanging out with her.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Whether they are or not is beside the point. The fact they are trying to make you feel less attractive is not only immature, but there is a streak of malice there. Avoid those people because God knows you don’t want malicious people around you. Life has enough of its own troubles without adding to it, when you have a choice.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

I don’t think anyone has done that to me? Probably because anyone who cares that much about looks probably knows they are better looking already haha

deathfairy ·

i step back and let them show ugly they are inside.

SW-User

That hasn't happened 🤔 I don't remember that truly happening to me really.

Fluffybull · F

@SW-User Me neither. I've never met people with so little in their heads to even think of that 🙄🤷

SW-User

@Fluffybull yeah really weird.

Mamapolo2016 · F

That's a pretty silly contest to get dragged into. They are who they are, you are who you are.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

I recommend not caring what other people do, and not saying anything about it.

EmoRapid · 26-30, M

Nothing I usually always win in the end and I don't hover around peeps for drama

SW-User

Pretty sure that no one has ever felt the need to prove this.

TopOfTheWorld

Probably best to leave that stuff to the junior high school age kids.

Iwillwait · M

Not a far stretch. I honestly don't care.

Fishy · F

I'd say they have a lot of insecurities tbh

fernie2

I would not acknowledge that high school behavior

TryingtoLava

I laugh

Girlygirl · 36-40, F

@TryingtoLava Lol whyy

TryingtoLava

@Girlygirl cuz they obvi feel so insecure they havta prove themselves to somebody not even competing hahah

fernie2

@Girlygirl Why? Because it's absurdly funny! Immature, insecure, mean girl nonsense. Your job is to NOT care!

BBrendan · 46-50, M

Firstly good looking is subjective. What is better looking for one observer, might be less good looking for another.
Secondly, if a person has to prove that they’re good looking because, I don’t know, nobody noticed, Then maybe they’re not that nice to look at in the first place.

Nomad7 · 22-25, M

My 18 year old cousin did that with me recently and he meant to say it in a hurtful way, but the truth is that I in fact look much better than him, so I laughed it off 😌

Girlygirl · 36-40, F

@Nomad7 You know you look better than him but he thinks he looks better than you.. Is it so?

Nomad7 · 22-25, M

@Girlygirl Well, I've never had to say this, but I've been compared to actors and girls often throw themselves at me and he just doesn't get that sort of stuff, so I guess it makes sense to follow the evidence. Besides, if I indeed did look better than someone, I don't need to go try to say it to them in order to make it true 😂

He also said other things like how he dresses a lot better than me and how everything of his is better than mine. I didn't want to say anything hurtful in return

SW-User

Ditto what Lava said
I’d laugh. If they feel the need to make that an ambition then they likely have lots of issues

cycleman · 61-69, M

they are just showing a weak side of themselves. be happy you are not like that and don't say a word about it either.

OogieBoogie · F

I'd feel complimented that they felt I was even worth the competition.

But I'd also feel sorry for them, and their level of shallow.

Beauty is subjective
Beauty is more than just looks
And outer beauty can be destroyed or fade over time.