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Ahhh okay. Imma try and help my dude out here because I was kinda twisted at first too before I read the comments. The word choice make it a little ambiguous.
I don't think he means buying gifts for a woman friend you have a non-sexual relationship with or for a women you have no sexual interest in but want to do a nice deed for.
I think he's talking about a certain dolt of a guy who basically does this cringy ass reverse prostitution of himself. Basically hoeing out his cash and energy trying to get the cookie but is so lame he never does. It really is cringy as fuck and to be honest, speaking as a guy here with secret behind the scenes knowledge kinda comes from a misogynistic center. They just kinda try to buy their way into any chick that they can. Either it works by chance and they use 'em up and gloat about what a pimp they are or they go broke and claim what a pimp they are.
I don't think he means buying gifts for a woman friend you have a non-sexual relationship with or for a women you have no sexual interest in but want to do a nice deed for.
I think he's talking about a certain dolt of a guy who basically does this cringy ass reverse prostitution of himself. Basically hoeing out his cash and energy trying to get the cookie but is so lame he never does. It really is cringy as fuck and to be honest, speaking as a guy here with secret behind the scenes knowledge kinda comes from a misogynistic center. They just kinda try to buy their way into any chick that they can. Either it works by chance and they use 'em up and gloat about what a pimp they are or they go broke and claim what a pimp they are.

SW-User
@MethDozer EXACTLY!
Miram · 31-35, F
You're just jealous that you don't get any gifts and I do.
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SW-User
@Miram thats the thing; the dick isn't even in the equation. They will not get to use it.
So all im advocating is helping your bros have a meet with reality.
So all im advocating is helping your bros have a meet with reality.
Miram · 31-35, F
@SW-User The dick is making the decisions and you're trying to put a leach on it.
Leave the dicks alone unless you're willing to go all the way, alllll the way.
Leave the dicks alone unless you're willing to go all the way, alllll the way.

SW-User
@Miram no. Not gonna let my friends be tricked by you. Sorry.
Harriet03 · 46-50, F
ScarletWitch · 31-35, F
That's stupid. I've been gifted before. Sometimes it's the thought that matters.
ScarletWitch · 31-35, F
@SW-User if I gifted you. How would you feel? 🤗 U need a hug.

SW-User
@ScarletWitch if you did it because you thought it would get you laid then I would refuse the gift and tell you that you have a problem 🤷🏽♂️
ScarletWitch · 31-35, F
That's strange but no.
EuphoricTurtle · 41-45, M
Meh 🤷♂️
Some people show their body for attention they otherwise wouldn't get and some people spend their money for attention they otherwise wouldn't get. To each his own
Some people show their body for attention they otherwise wouldn't get and some people spend their money for attention they otherwise wouldn't get. To each his own
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
😶

SW-User
I don’t like simping, as in flattering and buying gifts in the hope of sexual favors. The problem is that may not be the motive at all but a man will still be wrongly accused of “simping”.

SW-User
@SW-User right. Thats why you have a conversation.
"Hey bro...are you simping?"
"Naw man I just want to be nice"
"Okay cool".
But if he says "naw man I know I can hit that. I have a PlAn. Im gonna get PuSsY off this."
Thats when you say "look bro...I'm sure she gets lots of gifts from lots of men for that same reason. You really think she fucks them all? How much do you think you'll have to invest to get a return? Is this really worth it?"
"Hey bro...are you simping?"
"Naw man I just want to be nice"
"Okay cool".
But if he says "naw man I know I can hit that. I have a PlAn. Im gonna get PuSsY off this."
Thats when you say "look bro...I'm sure she gets lots of gifts from lots of men for that same reason. You really think she fucks them all? How much do you think you'll have to invest to get a return? Is this really worth it?"

SW-User
@SW-User Yeah, that is cringey and I’ve seen friends go down that road (it almost never works too).
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
So being simply kind, is simping? 😐

SW-User
@Baybreeze this is referring strictly to men who give gifts in order to get laid or improve their prospects.
That is what simping is.
That is what simping is.
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@SW-User So you're say ing though they should only gifts if they're ALREADY GETTING sex? That's still the same thing...in a way. Giving something because they want something?

SW-User
@Baybreeze yes. Unless the gift is not related to sex in any way shape or form. Purely a true gift between friends.
That is something different
That is something different
Female friends are a good thing you know.

SW-User
@RandomForest yeah okay.
softspokenman · M
Who's code is that ?
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
So guys only buy things in return for sex? Do you not have friends? that's sad.

SW-User
@KuroNeko not what I'm saying. I've typed my explanation too many times. Its here. Read it if you care to.
quitwhendone · M
🙄🤦♂️ That's some Neanderthal ass thinking.
quitwhendone · M
@SW-User Yeah, I agree with you on dudes simping but women be encouraging that shit.

SW-User
@quitwhendone right! Now we're seeing eye to eye.
Men should help each other to resist that and see reality.
Men should help each other to resist that and see reality.
quitwhendone · M
@SW-User Yeah, but I do nice things for women I don't want to sleep with.













