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Do you see having a stalker as a compliment?

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SW-User

No it's creepy but at the same time idgaf

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popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User not enough! REAL LIFE HUGS RIGHT MEOW! 🐱 although its almost 4 am so i'll hug you in my dreams xD

SW-User

@popmol sweet dreams!! ;)

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User thanks :)

BoobooSnafu

Really?

Being harassed amd threatened is a compliment? Having your friends threatened is a way of boosting your ego?

Er no,
No fucking way at all.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@BoobooSnafu a stalker follows you and gets to know everything about you. the engagement of attackign or somethign else is not neccesary to be a stalker!

i always use :p, when i'm happy sad neutral and meh, sadly on some sites they are happy and some sad or neutral so :(

i'm a jolly person like a natural jester. depends on the answer i get thats how i react. not only that but i play devils advocate on my questions.
i saw your answer as a less serious one like w no not ew disgusting this happened to me or someone closeto me before ew.

true that would suck. but i'm not endorsing or saying its good, on this one i'm playing a devils advocate and saying not all stalkers are the same! free the stalker bad image! not all stalkers are the same ;( (see i'm silly)

i always use emoji, as i'm quite infuriated by people not understanding not everyone can read the meaning behind words or the way they are meant.
thats why i use emojis to show my state of being behind the words i say.

BoobooSnafu

@popmol I get your good nature - thing is - you touch on topics that... Like this one.. Have caused immense suffering, or even trauma to some.

I think if you choose subject such as these you should put a disclaimer in at the top, or... Maybe do a little research on.

My personal experience made me feel threatened in my own home and for the lives of not only a few of my friends, but my children as well.

Stalkers happen on all different levels - mine went right to my RL personal life - it terrified me!

popmol · 22-25, M

@BoobooSnafu well asking about everythign is my style :) if it causes them to much trauma then they should just tell me.

i like to get a range of answers, from happy sad angry and other stuff :p

that does sound terrible and i feel bad it happened to you :(

yeah yo ugot one of the worst kinds :( i'm sorry that happened

SW-User

No, I never felt he was complimentary to me

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popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User well what can you expect you're aphrodite! you'll have loads of stalkers?

SW-User

@popmol only 1 who stalked

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User only 1? for a goddess as you?

4meAndyou · F

Nope. I had one once, and it was awful. Really awful. I was in high school, and I was supposed to be tutoring him. He developed an insane crush on me, and started stalking and harassing me. He would WALK from his own bus stop, about 3 miles, to MY house and just sit on the curb across the street staring at my house.

He would call me ALL the time begging me to go out with him...and I wasn't going to do that.

I was so upset after he threatened to kill himself if I didn't go out with him that I said to myself, "What do grown-ups do when they are really, really upset?"

I had just seen an old movie where Tony Randall got really drunk because he was upset...so I raided my parents liquor cabinet. I had no idea how to drink...so I poured a 12 oz glass full of vodka. It was awful. There was about a half inch left on the top of the vodka, so I put in about a half inch of Cranberry juice because I knew grownups put mixers in their drinks. And then it was so awful, I decided that grown-ups MUST just drink it down quickly so they wouldn't taste it, like medicine.

So that's what I did. I chugged it all on an empty stomach. About an hour later my mother came home from work and I was lying on my bed throwing up into my wastebasket over the side.

And THAT'S why stalkers are no fun...none at all.

popmol · 22-25, M

@4meAndyou that is quite creepy and terrible sounding :(

you did say that right?

the stalker made you start on booeze well thats not good! i assume he stopped?

4meAndyou · F

@popmol I had to tell the teacher what had happened. He asked me specifically to tutor this kid, and as soon as he realized that it worked out very badly, he removed me as this kid's tutor.

popmol · 22-25, M

@4meAndyou thats good :)

wilderflower · F

Yeah kinda.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@wilderflower haha! i didn't mean it like that but yeah xD i'll be seeing you around :p although i'm too lazy to stalk so well not for me its a no go on the following you but casual hey you're here to is fine xD

wilderflower · F

@popmol Okay!

popmol · 22-25, M

@wilderflower its also a lot harder if you aren't friends xD

GBPackersFan · 41-45, M

Sure and I’m always taking applications on that subject... females only btw 😀

SW-User

@GBPackersFan 😄

Somewhereovertherainbow · 46-50, F

@GBPackersFan 😂

popmol · 22-25, M

@GBPackersFan same here :p no one bites though i guess i'm not interestng enough :p

AbbySvenz · F

No, it’s scary

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popmol · 22-25, M

@AbbySvenz well i would, but i'm polite like that so i guess thats differnt :p

AbbySvenz · F

quite

popmol · 22-25, M

@AbbySvenz mmh well i don't know any stalkers so i can't say to disagree.

HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

I see it as bullshit

popmol · 22-25, M

@HannibalAteMeOut why?

HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F

@popmol it musn't be fun

popmol · 22-25, M

@HannibalAteMeOut lol xD

DarlingSelah ·

God no.

popmol · 22-25, M

@DarlingSelah
why not?

Soossie

If I like them, yes..

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popmol · 22-25, M

@Soossie thats a bit too much honour it hurts :p
sadly i'm not your stalker then i could be a living compliment haha xD

Soossie

@popmol

Lol... 👏👏👏

popmol · 22-25, M

@Soossie :)

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

Depends on the type of stalking

popmol · 22-25, M

@JoeyFoxx what kind do you prefer?

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

@popmol leaving candy on my desk.

popmol · 22-25, M

@JoeyFoxx lol xD

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I’m actually very playful. I wouldn’t mind it when I’m in the mindset. They should have a good sense of humor at the least though.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@Keepitsimple haha sounds like fun :) tue but serious is sometimes required :(

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

True, there’s a time and place for everything. @popmol

popmol · 22-25, M

@Keepitsimple although i think you should always do anything no matter time or place but to be sensitive to others theres certain jokes you don't make at certain times :p

Travelbug · 56-60, F

No it's terrifying

popmol · 22-25, M

@Travelbug ooh that sucks.

submissivelittlewoman · F

Nope.

popmol · 22-25, M

@submissivelittlewoman why not miss? well i know you have a lovely husband so you don't need any of it :p

submissivelittlewoman · F

@popmol I once had a stalker... I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

popmol · 22-25, M

@submissivelittlewoman thats terrible :(

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

It's a hassle.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@MarkPaul i'll believe you for now

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@popmol Finally! Some consideration...

popmol · 22-25, M

@MarkPaul yeah....

SW-User

nah but like yandere?

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popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User me too xD sadly i can't stand pain and most of those things end up in pain :p

SW-User

@popmol factsss I hope mines a smooth killer 🤭

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User no i don't my queen to die :(

Somewhereovertherainbow · 46-50, F

God no...

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Somewhereovertherainbow · 46-50, F

@popmol 🤦‍♀️😂

popmol · 22-25, M

@Somewhereovertherainbow but i always sit at home in the same space so kinda boring to you knwo stalk :p

Somewhereovertherainbow · 46-50, F

@popmol lol

SW-User

Thought at some point it could be atractive until saw how sick and really obsessed they were.

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User haha well you're a pretty lovely lady you'll easily get one! but some can go overboard indeed :p

SW-User

@popmol it was a nightmare.... It was... Really awful, one realizes how toxic some are

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User what happened?

DudeistPriest · M

Only if they have stalks of celery growing like horns behind their head.

popmol · 22-25, M

@DudeistPriest why those specifically?

DudeistPriest · M

@popmol Only real stalkers have tell-tale "stalks" behind their ears...

popmol · 22-25, M

@DudeistPriest i see

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

It's flattering but too scary to be enjoyed. I've been stalked twice and it wasn't comfortable.

popmol · 22-25, M

@DearAmbellina2113 i'm sorry they weren't cutesy and giving flowers and less creepy :p

wackidywack · 22-25

Absolutely not

popmol · 22-25, M

@wackidywack common spiderman :(

wackidywack · 22-25

@popmol quite

popmol · 22-25, M

@wackidywack lol

JBird · F

Nope. It's scary

popmol · 22-25, M

@JBird ell someone for you jaywalking must be very distracting xD

JBird · F

@popmol for me, it's always psychos that do the stalking. Usually western stalkers will do as much as watching you sleep or collect your hair strands hoping you notice them. In India, stalkers don't have patience. They stab, rape or throw acid on your faces if you don't agree to their advances.