Trevo · 26-30, M
You're shallow af tbh lmao
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Trevo · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing but you need to accept yourself
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Trevo Theres nothing i care to accept. Perhaps if I looked different I would.
Trevo · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing yep shallow
PoetryNEmotion · F
You THINK they are getting a lot when they really are not. Do you know how many feel the way you do? They just don't say or show it. You have to like yourself for others to like you. Work on that. Who cares about guys who want to impress you? Their hearts and their ways matter more. No one wants to be you. They want to be themselves. Appreciate what you have and who you are. Negativity clouds your mirror. That is why you cannot see your beauty.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@PoetryNEmotion They practically have guys throwing themselves at them. They can get anyone they want
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@PoetryNEmotion 👏🏾
PoetryNEmotion · F
@IAmNothing Some might very well be. Comparing yourself to others is undesirable. Your journey is different compared to mine compared to each single person. Comparisons serve no purpose. Concentrate on your journey. Your life. Start small. You can do it. You have a whole lifetime to do this.
Reject · 26-30, M
Looks do nothing more than give you a chance with people. Nobody is going to stay or care if you don't have a good personality to back it up.
Reject · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing No, they get genuine love because people care about them for the right reasons, their heart.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Reject how can you be certain its genuine?
Reject · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Because loving someone for looks isn't genuine. It's shallow. People who care about you only for that just want to have sex with you and then leave. Personality is what makes people actually love you and stay.
If you're not the best looking person, then it's obvious anyone who cares about you does it for your personality unless they have really unique tastes. Even then they won't stay unless they care about who you are and not what you look like.
If you're not the best looking person, then it's obvious anyone who cares about you does it for your personality unless they have really unique tastes. Even then they won't stay unless they care about who you are and not what you look like.
MessieNessie · 36-40, F
Try harder and stop complaining? I mean pretty girls put in effort to look that good sometimes...they've earned that popularity.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@emptysoul44 block me then
emptysoul44 · 46-50, M
@IAmNothing not yet young one. I'm having fun reading everyone slamming you.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@emptysoul44 whatever

SW-User
live for yourself, be yourself. start respecting/liking yourself and others will too
Gusman · 61-69, M
Stop wanting and appreciate what you have.
Stop comparing yourself/situation to others.
Love yourself. A positive self esteem is a prerequisite to attracting others to want to like you and be around you
Stop comparing yourself/situation to others.
Love yourself. A positive self esteem is a prerequisite to attracting others to want to like you and be around you
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Gusman I dont have anything. That's the problem.
Gusman · 61-69, M
@IAmNothing You don't need "Stuff". All you need is a positive outlook on life.
People shy away from negativity.
People shy away from negativity.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
Not all pretty girls have that. That's what the worlds want you to think. My opinion
emptysoul44 · 46-50, M
Self confidence is as important as looks
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@emptysoul44 theres no point
emptysoul44 · 46-50, M
@IAmNothing ok fuck it idgaf
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@emptysoul44 neither do i
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
There is nothing at all wrong with wanting those things, but it is self defeating and self destructive to slip into deep depression over not having them. You need to appreciate who you are
HerKing · 61-69, M
I want I want I want....What about you?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@HerKing I'll be much happier
HerKing · 61-69, M
@IAmNothing I asked what you'd give in return, not what you expected.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@HerKing I'd give happiness

SW-User
The difference between you and pretty girls is they stop feeling sorry for themselves and put in the work to achieve and maintain that. Do you think they do and eat whatever the fuck they want and still end up looking that way? Nah. Sorry, that's exceedingly rare.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User They also probably started out good and needed little work to become great.
emptysoul44 · 46-50, M
@SW-User nah that's just me lol
xDanielx · 31-35, M
^^^^ Y’all are fucking dickbags. “You’re shallow af tbh lmao.” Seriously? Grow the fuck up. Don’t listen to them hun, some are on the right track but have absolutely NO tact or empathy. Listen, I’ll lay it out for you straight: if you live your OWN life, do what YOU are passionate about, take care of your body, eat healthy, exercise, stay active, and have things going on for you? Then men will flock to you like bees on honey. I promise. And yea, maybe that’s a shallow desire, to want men to pay attention to you. At least on the surface. But I’m pretty sure that want is indicative of a need or something that’s much deeper. But I am not kidding; everything you stated up there will happen if you just “do you.” If you just start trying to see and find value in YOURSELF, rather than how others view or value you. Fuck them. This is your life and your body. Be a badass, find and live your passion, and build your body and eat healthy af till you look like a knockout. You’ll have to work for it. Reach out and grab that confidence, and prove them wrong. Then they’ll damn sure wish they were you.