Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Why is it so wrong to want what all the pretty girls have?

I want tons of people asking me out. Instead I get few who either are desperate or feel sorry for me. I want tons of people wanting to be my friend. I have no friends. I want guys going out of their way to impress me. Instead I get nothing. I want people to wish they were me. Nobody wishes they were me or wishes to have my life.

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

Reject · 26-30, M

Looks do nothing more than give you a chance with people. Nobody is going to stay or care if you don't have a good personality to back it up.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@Reject I dont have any chances with anyone.

Reject · 26-30, M

@IAmNothing No, you do. The people you think are ugly gave you a chance. That's besides the point though. What I'm saying is that even if you were good looking, nobody would want you anyways because you're a genuinely awful person on the inside.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@Reject I wonder how I became such a bitter person hmmmmm.... everyone in my life made me this way. Constant rejection,bullying,being out down everyday hmmmmm...

As I said those guys were desperate or felt bad for me.i could never be happy with them.

Reject · 26-30, M

@IAmNothing There's plenty of hideous people with hard lives capable of caring about others in ways you don't.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@Reject and they dont get chances either

Reject · 26-30, M

@IAmNothing They do actually. It's not easy for them to find someone being ugly, but eventually they do because there are people who would think ugly is attractive, especially when personality makes up for any shortcomings.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@Reject Its not easy so they get what I get desperation and pity chances.

Reject · 26-30, M

@IAmNothing No, they get genuine love because people care about them for the right reasons, their heart.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@Reject how can you be certain its genuine?

Reject · 26-30, M

@IAmNothing Because loving someone for looks isn't genuine. It's shallow. People who care about you only for that just want to have sex with you and then leave. Personality is what makes people actually love you and stay.

If you're not the best looking person, then it's obvious anyone who cares about you does it for your personality unless they have really unique tastes. Even then they won't stay unless they care about who you are and not what you look like.