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Has anyone heard about any cases of people asking you for money on here? I mean like scammers, not people you know. Is that a thing?

Because there's this guy that randomly messaged me a couple of days ago asking me how am I, etc, what do I do for work, then he was asking me whether I still live with my parents(I suppose he wanted to know if I'm self-sufficient). I kept pulling away from these questions and steering the convo in a different direction. But then he began asking me about cars and I stopped the convo suspecting that a "do u have a car" question was coming.
Now, today he messaged me again asking whether I had a busy day at work.

Am I overthinking this and the guy is just looking to chat? or is he really interested in my financial status and whether I could "lend" him money?
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
No one has done that directly but had a problem on EP with young guys trying to chat me up and telling me they liked older women. I believe they (or it could have been one who switched identities) were into extortion scamming, they will get people to go on webcams and act like they love them or whatever and either get them to expose themselves on camera or find out information they can use against them (such as if they are married or whatever)...then they go to work demanding money not to tell. One notorious one got caught right before EP got closed down, there was a newspaper article about him.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@cherokeepatti wow I didn't know about that and that's it's actually a thing on these websites. Thanks,
SW-User
those are kind of personal questions and are kind of weird to ask someone
SW-User
she thought it was funny and different at first but then it got to be too much.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I mean I can understand her, because I got sent a dick pic once and it freaked the shizzles out of me. However when that happens daily I can imgine that it can get old and repulsive really fast.
SW-User
yep i think so too. and dont blame her for walking away from the site.
Yes ... there is a well played team picking on older guys and ladies that like ladies ... they have more than a few marks here

when they are tracked back ... they have a few associations in common that will make you shake your head
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@questionWeaver I see, thanks for the info
iQuit · F
Not yet but hey if that happens just block and report. Above all never give important information out that could be used against you as rule of thumb
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@iQuit Yeah gotcha, but at the same time I wouldn't want to just block a guy that had no bad intentions, that's mainly why I asked the question. Thanks,
iQuit · F
@Dan193 but here's the thing you don't know what their motives are.They could be building on to his true intentions. I wouldn't want to think that, but people are capable of alot of things. At the end of the day, best of luck. I hope nothing bad come of you interacting with them.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@iQuit I hope so too.
Don't even consider trusting anyone even your mother😆
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Mondayschild :') yes ma'am!
@Dan193 that can be bad for your well being😝
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Mondayschild I'll try not be as blinded by your guys' awesomeness no more
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Probably gearing up to bring the family on vacation and Christmas is coming after all...
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Keepitsimple hahaha it's the season from the scammers right now
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Dan193 right?
He's just nosy, there are people like this who ask personal questions.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@Gingerbreadspice It's hard opening up to people who's names you don't even know, let alone other info.
SW-User
I think he wants to marry you, just that.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@SW-User he should've asked about my love status then x)
goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F
He's too nosy. You shouldn't chat with him anymore.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@goagainsttheflow thanks, I'm not planning on doing that anymore
SW-User
Way too many questions
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@SW-User they asked you for money? in what context? or just directly
SW-User
@Dan193 there were posts where people tried to ask for money
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@SW-User I see

 
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