When you talking to a guy and he stops responding slowly and doesn't reply till forever

That is so cute I love it thanks for the advice! @plungesponge

@SW-User yeah like I just feel like he's tired of me. But just won't say so. He used to reply so fast every single time even on Snapchat but not anymore. He even takes hours. Why can't he just told me he doesn't want to talk to you more?

@Serenitree I just have low self-confidence.

@SW-User I'm sorry about that. My problem is.......I grew up in a different era. My correspondence was often but mail. Post. Not email. Sometimes we didn't get more than a couple of letters a month. When we were in the same city, we called, but back then, there weren't even answering machines or call display. When we called, they either answered or not. Waiting a few days or a week wasn't anything to fret about unless we had already made definite plans and they didn't show up or call to cancel.

I've never learned to expect instant responses. I figure they have a life, just as I do. My family knows better than to get impatient if I'm slow to respond.

@Coralmist yesssss

@Fav777 because he was unsure of you. Responding instantly is what happens in a new relationship.

Kind of like sex in a new marriage. It starts out being a few times a day, but then life needs to be lived. Work needs to be done. The energy is different. So it becomes maybe, every night or less. Eventually it becomes less frequent depending on what the couple is doing. Work, family, children, friends, all need to be attended to.

Just because he isn't all over you as he was in the beginning, doesn't mean he's not interested. Does he have a job? Go to university? Have a family? Friends?

If you need him to drop everything and respond immediately, perhaps you should examine your self confidence. I just know that I tended to back away from any guy who got too demanding of my time.

I hope, if you really like this guy, you will cut him some slack, or he just may cut you loose.

Oh my gosh so thoughtful thank you for that. I would but he's a party type of guy it looks like moves on fast@Serenitree

@Fav777 then maybe its good you've discovered that before things went to the point where you were in love with him

@aztecwolf well that's f$&ked up! What the heck n I think that's what on earth of his friends told him to do, he literally switch over night

@HannibalMontanimal betcha can't read mine.

@Serenitree Nope 😕

@HannibalMontanimal 😉

Hahaha good one@Serenitree

@SailorMarz yeah I think I'm gonna stop n if I do he just won't text back till forever. Not gonna waste my time

@Fav777 I wasn't kidding. To you, forever might be a couple of hours. To him a couple of hours might fly by without him noticing if he's in the middle of a job or dining with family. Or anything.

@Fav777 that sounds like your best bet. Give up on him.

Yeah I am he sure such an asshole lol he wasn't ugly anyway@Serenitree

@Fav777 okay. I'm guessing you aren't as interested in him as I first thought you were. I just can't see giving up on someone so easily if I was actually interested in them.

What's over@Peaceful