When you talking to a guy and he stops responding slowly and doesn't reply till forever
What's gonna on? He use to text right a way and reply, now he takes his time why?
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SW-User
I feel you on this. I freak out when a guy doesn't respond to my messages right away. I would even message him furious things and tell him to never message me ever again and make drama and a scene, only to find out that he was just eating and left his phone in his room. And then I feel so embarrased usually lol.
I just freak out when guys don't answer right away cause I'm always scared that he's focused on another girl and when I'm interested in him that thought alone would seriously hurt.
I just freak out when guys don't answer right away cause I'm always scared that he's focused on another girl and when I'm interested in him that thought alone would seriously hurt.
Serenitree · F
@SW-User that's very sad.
Fav777 · 26-30, F
@SW-User yeah like I just feel like he's tired of me. But just won't say so. He used to reply so fast every single time even on Snapchat but not anymore. He even takes hours. Why can't he just told me he doesn't want to talk to you more?
SW-User
@Serenitree I just have low self-confidence.
Serenitree · F
@SW-User I'm sorry about that. My problem is.......I grew up in a different era. My correspondence was often but mail. Post. Not email. Sometimes we didn't get more than a couple of letters a month. When we were in the same city, we called, but back then, there weren't even answering machines or call display. When we called, they either answered or not. Waiting a few days or a week wasn't anything to fret about unless we had already made definite plans and they didn't show up or call to cancel.
I've never learned to expect instant responses. I figure they have a life, just as I do. My family knows better than to get impatient if I'm slow to respond.
I've never learned to expect instant responses. I figure they have a life, just as I do. My family knows better than to get impatient if I'm slow to respond.