When you talking to a guy and he stops responding slowly and doesn't reply till forever

@Serenitree yeah I know but he use to reply to everything so fast

@Fav777 because he was unsure of you. Responding instantly is what happens in a new relationship.

Kind of like sex in a new marriage. It starts out being a few times a day, but then life needs to be lived. Work needs to be done. The energy is different. So it becomes maybe, every night or less. Eventually it becomes less frequent depending on what the couple is doing. Work, family, children, friends, all need to be attended to.

Just because he isn't all over you as he was in the beginning, doesn't mean he's not interested. Does he have a job? Go to university? Have a family? Friends?

If you need him to drop everything and respond immediately, perhaps you should examine your self confidence. I just know that I tended to back away from any guy who got too demanding of my time.

I hope, if you really like this guy, you will cut him some slack, or he just may cut you loose.

Oh my gosh so thoughtful thank you for that. I would but he's a party type of guy it looks like moves on fast@Serenitree

@Fav777 then maybe its good you've discovered that before things went to the point where you were in love with him