I do have a weird mix of an elegant and eccentric style. I know that I will stand out and people will judge me. But I wear these clothes to please myself, not others, so I couldn't care less. I often feel powerful and confident, thought sometimes I feel like I can be accidentally intimidating (I’m 6 foot tall”). I’ve learned to be a little extra friendly or goofy with new people so they don’t get that impression.
When I’m feeling low self esteem sometimes I feel too big, and get very self conscious about being larger than other women. But usually I can get out of that headspace by putting on a badass outfit that only a very tall statuesque woman could pull off. .My parents are extremely rich. I grew up rich. I am dressing up everywhere (even for grocery shopping ). The whole shebang, satin/leather/shiny pants/skirts, satin/silk blouses, pantyhose, shapewear, high heels, full make up on, be it morning, noon or evening. Most of my outfits are well-coordinated in terms of color I love my style and get lots of compliments on my clothes. My clothing makes me stick out like a sore thumb in this town. I am always dressed up to the max, on high heels, full make up on.
However, some acquaintances here in this town think I overdress for daily activities . Most people think I am stuck up and arrogant. I feel confident this way, so i don't want to dress down .
I used to till about 5 years ago. Now I notice age and body changes I don’t like. I try to keep up with how I look. I guess compared to most my age, I prob still look better than average but not as good as I used to that’s for sure.
Yes. Although most people dress casually for church on Sundays, I still wear nice clothes, including a jacket and often a tie. I know I'm the only person there with cufflinks, but I don't care.