I really can't stand toxic positivity enablers

@PatientlyWaiting25 [@Mmiker It's when your husband dies and you're told to be happy and given a lecture or endlessly being told how you should make your life better instead of having an arm put around you and saying I'm sorry this happened to you and crying with you, because most of us that's all we want and we don't need too many "it will get better messages"
We're not really looking for solutions at those times of grief we're looking for compassion and empathy.

@PatientlyWaiting25 Not every situation needs a there there you'll be ok pat on the back ....that doesn't work for depression

[ @Justmeraeagain @cherny
Every person and situation is different so what people find helpful will be to. Reactive depression is different to depression caused by a chemical imbalance and grieving a person who died suddenly and traumatically will be different then when the persons death had been expected and planned for following a lengthy illness. It's very difficult to really know what will be helpful. Xx

@BillyMack