What if you go to a friend and tell them there's something they don't know about you that you kept from them for 8 years?

I know I don't owe anyone anything but I'm now wondering whether it's going to strengthen the friendship.

smiler2012 · 56-60

{@piecingbabyfacetogether] 🤔 what you need too ask yourself is really do they need too know whatever it is . does it matter them knowing is it any of there business

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

@smiler2012 I don't think it'll matter but I think it'll make me more open which she wants but how can I be open if I keep so much to myself.

InOtterWords · F

Did you deliberately keep it from them.or was it something that just never came up?

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

@InOtterWords A bit of both. It's about not believing. In my society you're not supposed to stray away from the tribe. You have to be religious or just look religious and homophobic etc etc. That's why I struggle to have friends because I haven't met the one who is like me. Not offline anyway.

InOtterWords · F

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether so it is a trust thing. I get it, theu probably would too

bijouxbroussard · F

I suppose it depends on whether or not it changes who you’ve been to this person or the nature of your friendship. If not, it shouldn’t really matter.

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

@bijouxbroussard I guess I'll never know unless I do tell her.

pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

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