Serving is really not for me. I don’t know why I keep doing it 😂.

And your special people there

It's so easy to get into jobs with high burnout and staff turnover.
On the whole, one can do it without too much emotional energy: even the most difficult customers just need the same kind of polite and positive responses to their needs.
Which leaves enough emotional energy to do other things one really loves, like being creative, attending classes or volunteering in the community...

With your love of being helpful there might be numerous other careers where you'd do well, even though they might take going back to studies or training:
aged care,
nursing,
teaching,
counselling,
massage,
cleaning,
emergency support,
disability carer,
foster carer,
animal shelter worker...

There are free online vocational guidance counselling sites.

Multitests.org is not free, but it's affordable and can help can a clearer idea for what one would love and do very well in.

Please feel free to message me if you ever fell like chatting.

$$$ is the answer. And something you've been doing and can get hired because of that.
Take it for what it is and figure out what move you can make using those learned skills. You don't succeed as a server without pleasing people and making good tips.

You've become familiar with it. So when you need a job you know that's something you can do. Try to branch out and do something else. Maybe your talents will shine in an office setting on retail or law enforcement. Whatever. Don't sell yourself short.