I find people that use words like 'real' 'easy going' 'laid back' can often turn out to be quite the opposite.

Not saying it's a given but what people say usually means different things to different people.
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Yes, and that's real too.

A bit of tact helps, but yeah .. as often as not

Yep
Why I keep more quiet for the most part

Exactly my point. I think the real for them is ideal in the fantasy world.

Lol…… the interpretation of “real” seems to vary widely.

Don't make waves,it makes the villagers restless😹

Truth is most ppl can only cope with a watered down version of “Real “ and many not even that

Enter Fleetwood Mac “ Tell me lies … tell me sweet little lies “ 😿

So you find that people generally wet themselves when you are real with them? 😉

Lots of people can’t handle “real” and fold up like a wet napkin when presented with it. Those are the clowns to avoid. Life is too short to be wasted on flakes.

They just cant handle you

That's when you do this

Catch 22 situation 😁😁

People are known to lie

They like their idea of real not reality

Yep. Social media is a Mecca of hypocrisy, self-unawareness, irony, and double standards.

😂🤣 ikr🤷‍♀