I’m just trying to be fair… just concerned like a nosy neighbor with popcorn.😂😝

(Saw a post about a woman finding out about her husband’s secret social media account).

Ladies, you say you don’t like when men hide their social media…
But girl, how’s he not gonna hide it when you’re ready to start a full-blown investigation because he left 24 comments on the same woman’s posts in just two weeks?
Men, be for real.
How do you expect her to stay calm when you’ve been in that woman’s comment section like it’s your side hustle?😝✌

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dancingtongue · 80-89, M

The best advice I ever got online -- which sounds like an oxymoronic thing, but wasn't -- was tell your wife what you are doing online. This is back in the days of cyberchat and chat rooms. I had made clear to all my online encounters that it was fantasy only and going nowhere beyond fantasy; the point was my wife was the one who needed to hear that, and have it out in the open. So I did. She was taken back a bit, but then accepted it. It never got blown out of proportion by being secretive, or behind her back. Actually, we -- together -- later met with five of the women I had been chatting with, and she liked four of them. The fifth she felt threatened by, and probably rightfully so as she later divorced her husband for a man she met online. But she rightfully saw the threat coming from her, not betrayal by me.