Really? I usually get attacked by extremist mobs. But then, I tend to think outside the box and entertain ALL 'possibilities', which makes many people and groups assumptive, nervous and uncomfortable.
True. That's nature, isn't it? The human mate needs to be measured up to the possibilities of a long, long life together. A sense of humour should be required too.
Perhaps in a good healthy debate where you're on the same respectful level and the temperature rises, but no to arguing. I face arguments all too often and it makes me wanna shrink into the oblivion..
There is nothing strange about it imho. Intellectual debate is about testing your own perspectives and biases against other viewpoints and biases; hopefully finding common ground or at least mutual respect for each other's positions.
Name calling, bullying, labeling may be friction but in no way is intellectual or productive.
It’s the sweet spot where constructive dissent, different perspectives, and "creative abrasion" push both parties to think critically and articulate their ideas better. It turns disagreements into a shared learning experience rather than just an ego contest