I Want Someone I Can Tell Anything To

But since I can't, I will get back to using this place as I intended, a place to vent, heard or not...

When I need to be alone, sometimes just a short drive helps. Drive a little slower, turn up the radio, sing along as loud as I want. Music can be some pretty good therapy. A Whitney Houston song came on and even though I cannot sing, I did anyway. I am still trying to figure out why I ended up sobbing uncontrollably. I had to pull over and just let it out. Maybe thats what it was all about...

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Heartlander · 80-89, M

I think sometimes that suppressed feelings keep stacking up and when the dam breaks it's not only for today's issue but for the other stuff also.

I love the drive idea. How about picking out a favorite "cry" destination and go there every time. One near a coffee shop for when you are ready to put your pieces back together :) A far better option than a bar :)

I'm really just speaking for myself.

TxBtrflyX2 · 51-55, F

@Heartlander: yeah, I wouldnt put myself in a bar in my current frame of mind, that wouldnt be good for anyone.

you mentioned finding a cry destination and putting my pieces back together...

Im telling you, I feel so broken, I don't know if the pieces fit anymore

Heartlander · 80-89, M

Well, it's like a big puzzle. You don't even know if you have all the pieces until you get closer to putting it all together :) But their are probably a few important pieces. When you get to that coffee shop a good start is to list the important pieces. Only you will see them so don't worry about making any mistakes. Worry about the rest later :)

Honestwife · F

I understand! Sometimes things get rough and you need to be able to talk to someone without being judged. I hate that you have been having a hard time but I can do anything, please don't hesitate to let me know!😘

Fishes71 · 51-55, M

Like others have said, this is a good place to vent. We may not be right next door, but we're just a click away. Sometimes it feels good to talk with someone even if they are remote. Discussing things helps you makes sense of your problems.

djjohnson · 41-45, M

That's one of the nice things about this place. Being able to vent out into the open. If you feel a time you need to know someone is listening just let me know.

SW-User

Aww 🤗 If you ever need a good friend to confide in , I'm a good listener and never judgemental
Message anytime sweet lady 🤗

TxBtrflyX2 · 51-55, F

thank you and ditto 😘@SW-User

SW-User

Awwyiur welcome and thanks 🤗@TxBtrflyX2

Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M

I'm sorry you starting crying uncontrollable you were good to stop and ler it out . Awe I wish I could of been there to give you a hug. Even though you wanted to be alone I feel bad for you. 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M

Hope you feel better. ❤

Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M

It's ok to cry. Maybe the song is a sad song. I know this song. When I hear a sad song I cry too. Just can't help it.

penguinswon · M

try me

TxBtrflyX2 · 51-55, F

🙂 @penguinswon

Newshoes · M

You're crying because Whitney reached into your soul and showed you what a dickhead Bobby B was.

Only joking.

I have days where I suddenly realise I'm about to cry and I don't really understand why. Its a weird feeling. Often it's a song though, or an act of kindness. Or it nearly happened today when I saw a poorly girl on the train. I think she'd been for chemo or blood treatment or something ghastly. She was only about 6.

*sigh*

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