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PhoenixPhail · M
You're amazing. I may take you up on your offer. So far, I've NEVER found anyone I can tell anything to. Even counselors.
But there's nothing more I would like in my life than someone I can just BE with and tell anything to without fear of judgement or criticism.
But there's nothing more I would like in my life than someone I can just BE with and tell anything to without fear of judgement or criticism.
Lullacus · 31-35, F
@PhoenixPhail That is what makes SW such a special place. It provides a space in which you can be your true, honest self without fear of judgement. It seems that it may be easier to be honest towards complete strangers than to the people we know and love.
PhoenixPhail · M
@Lullacus Well, I can choose to be my true, honest self anywhere. I think there are people everywhere judged or not. Many people on social media find it an even better place TO judge because they can hide within their anonymity. But also, people may be more accepting and less judgemental BECAUSE of their anonymity, as well. You seem one with whom I might be able to be completely honest in safety. 😊🤗
PhoenixPhail · M
Seriously? This is [b][i]exactly[/i][/b] what I've been looking for. The problem has been, I find people who's non-judgemental-ness turns out to be part of [b][i]their[/i][/b] masks. So when I tell my truths to them, and they have some underlying issues with what I'm saying, that non-judgement-ness they proclaim to have falls away, and some truths about themselves they may not even know they have, bleed through and leads to judgement and criticism.
A lot of people want me to see who they [b][i]believe[/i][/b] they are, not who they [b][i]truly[/i][/b] are.
A lot of people want me to see who they [b][i]believe[/i][/b] they are, not who they [b][i]truly[/i][/b] are.
Deepbreath · 46-50, M
Hi Lullacus I pm you. Hope that's ok