Just to be clear from yesterday's post that I did take down because people were getting stupid....
I'm not here for a hookup I'm here for friendship . Some of us can have friendships without all the hanky panky. Someone insinuated I was here for a hookup or a dating match if I want that I don't need to go on a website.... I'm not looking for a dating match. Just looking for friendship My girlfriends don't talk about things with cars or some of them can't hold and intellectual conversation about books art music culture their interests are in going to bars and going dancing and finding men to buy them drinks I have different interests. And I'm just looking for someone to chat with that's all I'm not looking for any hookup I'm not looking for any type of dating but yeah life gets lonely sometimes and you wonder if there's any one person out there that you can share your interest with without having any strings tied. So to that person who made the snarky comment about me being on the wrong website for dating let me please assure you I'm not looking for a date . I take care of my mother who is very sick on top of my ex-father-in-law who has progressive dementia and somewhere in between I'm just looking for a little sanity that's all. Again the reason I don't talk to married men for the person who wanted to know why I don't broaden my prospects is because some people that are married don't care what happens when the wife finds out and then she starts calling me or messaging me and stalking me and giving me all kinds of problems they could care less when it gets to that point in fact I've actually had one of you tell me that they were going to move out of the house with their wife and then try to move in with me without even knowing me because it's now my fault that they're in trouble with the wife. So now can you understand? But I am looking for someone maybe on a daily basis to have a chat hang out. I'm sorry I just can't give the adult stuff out I'm just not in that mode but friendship and good conversation all about it. Forgive me if just like everybody else I was looking for someone to just talk to that's all. Oh and to all you married people out there who are on here doing what you're doing I hold no judgment. I get it believe me. I get how it can be lonely in a house even with a wife and family trust me. But if you are lucky enough to still hold that...... It must be worth something if you're still trying to hold on to it while having a conversation with someone here. So remember how lucky you are or at least I hope you are.
