@Bumbles i just interrupted with "please don't tell me". She says "oh, I wasn't sure if I should say anything" 😑

@Kuronekko Good for you for saying something. I did something similar when a do-worker was telling me everyone’s salary. Ugh.

@Beautywithin yeah, honestly still makes me wanna puke.

@smiler2012 It's been a matter of weeks and it still hurts a lot. I am doing my best to move on but it's a slow process and so it should be. You need to deal with feelings rather than moving straight onto the next thing. I wish him the best with his new life, I really do, but I don't want to know about it from the people around me and I think that's perfectly reasonable. I'm just a human.

@Kuronekko right i am sorry i did not realise it was so recent and eveything you say is right it must be hard for you too deal with and you have my heart felt sympathy there

@smiler2012 Thank you. I am being healthy about it, no contact and no watching him on social media etc. I'm staying busy and positive. That's all I can do until it's just a memory.

@Kuronekko Good for you! If you did not, then it becomes a thing she can play with to mess with you if she felt like it. I am proud you set that boundary with her! 🤗

@WillaKissing oh I absolutely want to avoid it at all costs. It ruins my day otherwise.

@Kuronekko Absolutely and work should be for work, not gossip!