Having an ok morning, minding my business

When a co-worker pops up to tell me shes seen my ex at the pub. Ugh, gut punch. 😑

Don't tell people about the movements of their exs, we don't need to know.

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WillaKissing · 56-60, M

Honestly why would she even think it was okay to come and tell you that? Does she have a secret agenda for doing so?

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@WillaKissing shes a gossip. I guess she had something juicy to tell me 🤢

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@Kuronekko To me once a person is an Ex then they stay, an Ex and I do not want to know or care where they are or what they are doing. I would find her tale annoying and would warn her once about it.

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@WillaKissing I did stop her and tell her I didn't want to hear it. She went very quiet.

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@Kuronekko Good for you! If you did not, then it becomes a thing she can play with to mess with you if she felt like it. I am proud you set that boundary with her! 🤗

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@WillaKissing oh I absolutely want to avoid it at all costs. It ruins my day otherwise.

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@Kuronekko Absolutely and work should be for work, not gossip!