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I'm lonely

Do you guys think it would be a good idea to look online for someone to just have a platonic meal and a coffee with from time to time?
I feel like at my age it is harder to make friends if you don't have kids or a dog. 😔
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LunarOrbit · 61-69, M
Dangerous I think but your call
JustNik · 51-55, F
Maybe could chat with some locals on Nextdoor or something, but it might be more fun to join a club or volunteer somewhere you might meet folks with similar interests. I hope you find something that helps. 🙂
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
I think it would be better to join a club or something like that. Pick something you like, like painting or chess or whatever, and you can meet people there and hangout.
Montanaman · M
Coffee shops are an amazing place to meet people. Go to one close to you and you like, same time everyday. Someone will notice you. 🤗🤗
SW-User
Sure, go for it. Just be careful. Always meet at a public place with lots of people around you.
Try meetup you can find people to do things with
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
It doesn't get any easier as you get older. Maybe join a club of people with similar interests, or with interests that you may find interesting. It's easy to have online friends, and to find a lot of pleasure chatting with them, but it's not the same as meeting face to face. I wish you luck.🙂
Andromedanian · 26-30, M
Hate to admit it that's what am doing rn, I love my significant other but even though I wish I wasn't like this were too far away from each other one state away and sometimes I do long for that emotional caring thing being with someone gives you.

I won't judge you, just make sure this is what you want and why you're doing it as well as what you're doing and with whom!, Hehe
AstroZombie · 36-40, M
I mean as long as they respected you were in a relationship and were willing to just be a social connection, I'm sure it wouldn't hurt.
I think yes but also establish friendships. Or join hobbies/activity group.
jademonkey19 · 41-45, T
Have you looked at bumble BFF? Might be good for making friends.

What sort of friendship are you looking for?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@jademonkey19 a friendship with someone I can hang out with and enjoy a meal with, watch a movie, or go window shopping, etc. Nothing sexual or romantic.
jademonkey19 · 41-45, T
@DearAmbellina2113 yep, definitely check out bumble BFF - its got a matching system oriented toward helping women find other women looking for friends
losthorizons · 51-55, M
Don’t be lonely. I’ll be friends with you. I thought you had someone flying in to meet you a while back?
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
Maybe there is a club where people go out to eat. An eating club.
would you be ok with your partner doing so?
Yaz69 · 36-40, M
I can be there for you.
If only you were closer! I love dinner 😋
MrGomco · 36-40, M
I would like to have that meal with you, is not that difficult.
Avoid pets and please avoid being the lonely and crazy cat lady.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@MrGomco I like animals. But I'm allergic to cats.
MrGomco · 36-40, M
@DearAmbellina2113 I love animals, but animals must be free, is good to know you're not part of Catland 👍
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I've done that, and spoken to some nice women along the way.
Bang5luts · M
Yes if you are safe about it and always let someone one know if and when you plan to meet said person, keep phone on you, charged and a plan to check in with someone and if you don't, for them to call the restaurant you are at to check on you. Always be safe ffs. 🙏
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Why are you lonely.🤔
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Zonuss I don't have friends in this city.
Lilnonames · F
I think ur huddy would get mad

 
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