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I'm lonely

Do you guys think it would be a good idea to look online for someone to just have a platonic meal and a coffee with from time to time?
I feel like at my age it is harder to make friends if you don't have kids or a dog. 😔
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
Dangerous I think but your call
JustNik · 51-55, F
Maybe could chat with some locals on Nextdoor or something, but it might be more fun to join a club or volunteer somewhere you might meet folks with similar interests. I hope you find something that helps. 🙂
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
I think it would be better to join a club or something like that. Pick something you like, like painting or chess or whatever, and you can meet people there and hangout.
Montanaman · M
Coffee shops are an amazing place to meet people. Go to one close to you and you like, same time everyday. Someone will notice you. 🤗🤗
SW-User
Sure, go for it. Just be careful. Always meet at a public place with lots of people around you.
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
Hate to admit it that's what am doing rn, I love my significant other but even though I wish I wasn't like this were too far away from each other one state away and sometimes I do long for that emotional caring thing being with someone gives you.

I won't judge you, just make sure this is what you want and why you're doing it as well as what you're doing and with whom!, Hehe
Try meetup you can find people to do things with
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
It doesn't get any easier as you get older. Maybe join a club of people with similar interests, or with interests that you may find interesting. It's easy to have online friends, and to find a lot of pleasure chatting with them, but it's not the same as meeting face to face. I wish you luck.🙂
MrGomco · 36-40, M
I would like to have that meal with you, is not that difficult.
Avoid pets and please avoid being the lonely and crazy cat lady.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@MrGomco I like animals. But I'm allergic to cats.
MrGomco · 36-40, M
@DearAmbellina2113 I love animals, but animals must be free, is good to know you're not part of Catland 👍
jademonkey19 · 41-45, T
Have you looked at bumble BFF? Might be good for making friends.

What sort of friendship are you looking for?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@jademonkey19 a friendship with someone I can hang out with and enjoy a meal with, watch a movie, or go window shopping, etc. Nothing sexual or romantic.
jademonkey19 · 41-45, T
@DearAmbellina2113 yep, definitely check out bumble BFF - its got a matching system oriented toward helping women find other women looking for friends
AstroZombie · 36-40, M
I mean as long as they respected you were in a relationship and were willing to just be a social connection, I'm sure it wouldn't hurt.
losthorizons · 51-55, M
Don’t be lonely. I’ll be friends with you. I thought you had someone flying in to meet you a while back?
I think yes but also establish friendships. Or join hobbies/activity group.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Maybe there is a club where people go out to eat. An eating club.
If only you were closer! I love dinner 😋
would you be ok with your partner doing so?
Yaz69 · 36-40, M
I can be there for you.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I've done that, and spoken to some nice women along the way.
Bang5luts · M
Yes if you are safe about it and always let someone one know if and when you plan to meet said person, keep phone on you, charged and a plan to check in with someone and if you don't, for them to call the restaurant you are at to check on you. Always be safe ffs. 🙏
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Why are you lonely.🤔
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Zonuss I don't have friends in this city.
Lilnonames · F
I think ur huddy would get mad

 
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