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Sometimes I’d rather someone be honest and say “hey I don’t want to be your friend/talk to you anymore”

Rather than have me spend a ton of effort trying to engage and that person only ever message when they need something from ME.
Cutting off is the best way. Sad. But for the best.
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Instead of just going to radio silence and pretending otherwise? Yeah count me in, especially when you have asked if there is something wrong out of concern for what you thought was a real friendship and they choose not to answer honestly.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I have had friends for years, on this site, simply jump to block without saying or asking for anything.🤷🏻‍♂
Sutten · 36-40, F
Time is expensive, you can't get it back, people need to value time and effort.
Lotsofberries · 26-30, F
@Sutten So true. Like that one quote “the price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it”.
If it’s not worth it don’t spend time on it. Needs to be my new motto.
RedBaron · M
That’s often what is being communicated non-verbally. It’s up to you to take the hint without needing to be told.
Lotsofberries · 26-30, F
@RedBaron Some people are not good at hints. Ignoring me gives me the impression of no friendship. But then they will message me when they need something hinting friendship. No more. I have cut them out.
Houdini · 56-60, M
Ok I don’t want to be your friend or talk to you anymore. But I don’t know you so that doesn’t work does it lol 😂
Convivial · 26-30, F
Painful but true
Most can’t handle truth… and then there are so many cowards… 🤷‍♀

Honesty is always the best… I can work with that.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Definitely not worth it.
@Mudkip Are you thick? She should tell them the truth and put them behind her. Good bye.
Mudkip · 31-35, M
@PoetryNEmotion I legit said the same thing as you, regarding wasting her time. You sound unhinged lol calm down
@Mudkip Get lost. You cannot read?
Be honest. You do not need to waste your valuable time.
🤔 i dunno if i prefer that or keeping my pleasant delusions
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Lotsofberries · 26-30, F
@swandfriends I’m more of the “wish them the best and depart because I outgrew them” gal
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Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
People have a hard time being honest. I don’t put up with shit like that 👌🏾💯
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