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One of my longtime friends from Ireland…

I’m friends with both her and her husband, whom I met first, in one of my classes at work.

She has the most beautiful naturally curly red hair, and he has long, beautiful dark hair, and they joke about how they both loved each other’s hair when they first met—on BART (public transit).

He had been working for a friend and had had his hair tucked into a hat to keep it out of the way. On the train, he pulled the hat off. His hair was almost waist-length, and a lot of people said, "woah !"

She said, "Jaysus !" He turned, saw her and grinned.
"Not quite—don’t be fooled by the hair ! I’m Rio." He extended his hand, she shook it, and that was the beginning.
Their children smile whenever they tell that story.

Now I also have curly hair, and during a visit she borrowed the conditioner I use. She liked it a lot, and has used it ever since.

It is marketed for African Americans, and while shopping together one day, we saw it on sale, and each picked up three bottles, with other items.
At the checkout stand, the cashier (who was also black) took her bottles and placed them with my items.

We looked at each other.
My friend said, "Hey, those are mine ! Look at this hair ! That’s a great product, and I use it, too !"

The cashier, an older woman, chuckled and put the bottles back with my friend’s things.
"Well, good for you, Ma’am. Clearly it works, your hair looks just beautiful !"

😄
bookerdana · M
He tucked his hair under his hat

And the sign said
"Long-haired freaky people
Need not apply"
So I tucked my hair up under my hat
And I went in to ask him why
He said, "You look like a fine upstandin' young man
I think you'll do"
So I took off my hat and said, "Imagine that
Huh, me workin' for you"
Whoa
Sign, sign
Everywhere a sign
@bookerdana Rio mostly wears his hair in a braid, now that he’s a grandfather. But back in the day, when he generally wore black jeans, black shirt and a bolo tie, with that long hair, he cut quite an impressive figure.
bookerdana · M
@bijouxbroussard A braid is cool,too neat but OG🥷
QueenandCrown · 41-45, F
I have a friend with kinky red hair who uses ethnic products.
My hair hates them...I typically use aloe vera gel or mousse
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
Whatever works! My adopted daughter (whose parents I have never set eyes upon) has the most untameable hair imaginable. A little olive oil used as conditioner makes her curls even curlier and beautifully shiny!
@SunshineGirl This conditioner also has olive oil as an ingredient. 😊
QueenandCrown · 41-45, F
@bijouxbroussard Im probably one of the few curly headed people whose hair hates oil..my hair prefers water based products
@QueenandCrown The thing I like about this is, it’s not super oily or greasy, because many products are for people with really dry hair and scalp. It moisturizes my scalp just enough to give my hair some shine and softness.
Ontheroad · M
My daughter has very kinky/cutly hair too, and she uses something one of her Black friends suggested she try. We struggled with it all the way through childhood and her teenage years, but once she tried what her friend suggested, she never looked back.

Interestingly, it was quite a lot less expensive than everything we had tried.
Crimsondrops · 36-40, M
My mom has naturally curly hair and she uses products marketed for African Americans also. She says the products help a lot.
black4white · 56-60, M
Very classy and wise of the cashier to take it in stride and compliment your friend as well.
sciguy18 · M
Sorry, but I can’t relate to full heads of hair; be they curly or flowing locks...
Rutterman · 46-50, M
Lovely story. It made me smile. 😇
@Rutterman Thank you. Always good to see you, my friend. 🤗
Rutterman · 46-50, M
@bijouxbroussard Always good to see you too. I've been away for a while and was happy to see your post near the top of my feed when I logged-on today. 🤗
Bang5luts · M
Crazy people. I have long hair as well

 
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