I don't know how to make friends or be a friend. Social stuff is hard for me.
Miram · 31-35, F
I find it difficult when they are clingy. I need lot of alone space because I am somewhere on the antisocial spectrum. Generally I give people whatever they give me doubled. If it is meanness, they get that and will end the friendship themselves.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Friendship isn’t hard when you have the right friends. It’s finding the right ones that’s hard.
wackidywack · 26-30
@Ducky or just of luck
or you don't have that. but also yeah, mostly.

SW-User
If a friend is mean to you , and it’s something frequent, they’re not really your friend
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
With the right person, it just flows. Sometimes, the chemistry isn't there.

SW-User
It may be the reason I have no friends anymore.
I wasn't willing to compromise and no one has that kind of care or affection for me that the friendship would feel genuine and nurtured.
I wasn't willing to compromise and no one has that kind of care or affection for me that the friendship would feel genuine and nurtured.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I don't even know if I have friends anymore, tbh. I socially fell so low that I guess I have nothing relevant to offer to anyone. And I don't want to be a leech to contact people just to help myself somehow.
YoMomma ·
Idk i mostly keep to myself but yeah i find it hard sometimes too.. and sorry if i offended you the other day by anything i said.. i was in a bad mood and if anything i said outraged you it wasn't meant for that effect 😳

SW-User
only in the sense that i'm not usually good at being a good friend.
Selah ·
Id rather have none than deal with that shit.
wackidywack · 26-30
@Selah yeah haha honestly :/
bijouxbroussard · F
I only "click" with a few people, because of shyness and reserve. But I’m lucky in that they stay my friends for a long time.

SW-User
I don't have a lot of friends
caccoon · 36-40
I find making friends very easy, but we do have to do a lot of curating and realise which ones are good for us and not
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I'm an introvert, so I do not tend to require a lot from my friends. And so long as my friends can deal with my introversion, it's pretty easy for me. I've got some friends i go months without talking to, but then when we do we just ease right into like we only spoke a couple days ago.
Dewms ·
if they're mean and awful, im taking away their friend badge
SpaceJesus · 41-45
Nah