I'm thinking about contacting a friend from over 25 years ago

I actually tried reconnecting with a former friend from 20 years ago. She lives a long way away now, and I thought, like you, what could go wrong by just chatting?

It didn't end well. Don't feel like going into detail for my own mental healths sake, but I feel like giving you a warning anyway.


Long story short: it took me less than 24 h to remember why I cut her out of my life in the first place.

Wnat could it hurt to form a friendship again. As you said. You've both grown up. Friends are important

Contact with more than a thousand miles between you can't hurt. I'd go for it. Could be an opportunity...if only for an old time sake conversation.

Do it! I bet she’ll be happy to hear from you!

*pops out from nowhere and gives advice*

this has never worked out that I have reached into the past for someone and it was a great idea

If you don't do it you'll be left wondering about it so I'd say do it

Do it!

Just curious why you want to contact her after all these years?

Absolutely contact her!

Its different now. Things change