How does it work when you give up on dating? 🤔 Like, do I go to a shelter or do cats just show up at my house? 🐱

What's the equivalent for a male to a "catlady"? 🤔

It's quite lovely about 3/4 of the time! The rest is miserable loneliness and understanding no one wants you!

@ScreamingFox as we experience life we learn what we find acceptable. A red flag in our forties(I think you said you were 40 and I'm 48) could've been a green light in our late teens, it's not being intolerant now, it's knowing we don't want to deal with certain things. Crippling debt, drama, immaturity. We all have our own definitions of what each of those things are.

But you know this I think and I'm to tired to delete it

ScreamingFox

@Justafantasy Yeah I think at this age I would prefer some life things to already of been gotten through. So now I understand what you mean about, what we are willing to accept.

Why would you delete it? You helped me understand something lol