How does it work when you give up on dating? 🤔 Like, do I go to a shelter or do cats just show up at my house? 🐱
What's the equivalent for a male to a "catlady"? 🤔
What's the equivalent for a male to a "catlady"? 🤔
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Justafantasy · M
@ScreamingFox its accepting you don't want what others have to offer.
@Justafantasy Sure, if they offer drama, immaturity, crippling debt, ect...
I tend to believe in people. I want to see them happy, strong and thriving. They then proceed to use, abuse, squash and drain me of what I have to offer lol
I tend to believe in people. I want to see them happy, strong and thriving. They then proceed to use, abuse, squash and drain me of what I have to offer lol
Justafantasy · M
@ScreamingFox believe me I understand, I've avoided a lot of people the last few months because...a lot of life doesn't make any sense, me being open is no benefit for anyone. Having faith in people is half the reason I'm where I am.
Justafantasy · M
@ScreamingFox as we experience life we learn what we find acceptable. A red flag in our forties(I think you said you were 40 and I'm 48) could've been a green light in our late teens, it's not being intolerant now, it's knowing we don't want to deal with certain things. Crippling debt, drama, immaturity. We all have our own definitions of what each of those things are.
But you know this I think and I'm to tired to delete it
But you know this I think and I'm to tired to delete it
@Justafantasy Yeah I think at this age I would prefer some life things to already of been gotten through. So now I understand what you mean about, what we are willing to accept.
Why would you delete it? You helped me understand something lol
Why would you delete it? You helped me understand something lol
Justafantasy · M
@ScreamingFox glad to help 😊