How should I help her? I have a neighbour that am close with, we go to evening walks and spend...

Remain friends with her and let her know she can always count on you and come to you if she ever needs someone. Invite her over for dinner.

I have been super skinny and believe me, comments about it did not make me eat better. The opposite. Instead I felt more shame and controlled it by starving myself even worse.

Rather give her emotional support

dale74 · M

Ask if she has anything that is stressing her out

Applepiedom · 56-60, M

Anonymous call to adult care for well check

Royricky09

Never get involved in anyone else's problems. Tomorrow people will blame you only.
If you do, don't let them know.

Bleak · 36-40, F

Domestic violence 😡😡😡

pdockal · 56-60, M

You can't unless she says something but you can suggest having a meal with her or desert

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

It's none of your business. She should make her own decisions. I know you are more concerned about her fragility but mental health is more important.

assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

Omg. I don't think there's much you can do but plant the idea of freeing herself from this situation very subtly in her head.

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NewRaven · 51-55, F

I think the only thing you can do is continue to be her friend.

dale74 · M

Ask her why she is loosing the weight

Reflection2 · M

Have you ever asked her whats going on?

ExperienceDLT · M

Stay out if it

BigGuy2 · 26-30, M

Sounds like she's being bullied - especially if her Mother AND Sister-in-Law are living at the address ...

...you may be her ONLY ray of hope ... so it's your call, get Support Services involved