Hi sweet Pearl… you are a beautiful human and it’s not your fault if they don’t realize it…..

Having said that, There are a few things that I want to mention to you and I think that we have already talked about them…

- you don’t want to be friends with people who choose their friends based on their height … look for friends who can see your beautiful heart…

- why wait for them to invite you?? Why don’t you invite them for coffee and cake at your place or a cafe .. hold an interesting conversation and find out about what interests them…

- participate in church activities … do volunteer and charity activities … in this way, they will find about your kind character and will be more than glad to become your friend…

- I wish I was living closer to you so that we could do things together …

Much love to you sweet lady … ❤️🥰

omg. i'm not sure if it's got to do with your height. I think it's something else entirely, what exactly I'm not sure I'm still trying to figure out. The whole phenomenon baffles me. People are the same with me. I've always had people walk right across my door, even if i try to be friendly and social, it's like i don't exist to them, that or they'll make cliques and ignore me, or even be active bullies. At work, it's still the same. It's so strange, I don't know what's wrong with me either. I do have a theory: we're not "influential", we don't "know" people, so we aren't resourceful enough to be their fake "friends". People are selfish. They are looking for people to use. If you do not have a network, more often than not, people will not approach you.

[quote]i would've gladly paid for them if they had[/quote]
This broke my heart. I've been there. Paying for everyone just so they'd hang out with me. Getting them gifts, and chocolates. Nothing works. They never stay. Just eat and leave. People just keep taking and taking and taking, and leave. And laugh at us behind our backs. It's not worth it. People just aren't worth it. I wish you'd realize how lovely you are. That you deserve people soooo good that they unfortunately don't even exist in the same space, because they're so rare to find. You are a beautiful human. Most people are not. They're rotten and ugly to the core. Please don't let them steal your happiness.

[c=002673]Two thoughts:
First of all, if people are avoiding you due to your height, they are very shallow and you are better off without them as friends.
Secondly , you state people never invite you to meals, etc. Have you tried inviting them first/? [/c]

I don't think it's your height at all

Have you considered living in a community where everyone is closer to your age?
Like one of those senior communities?

You may have a [i]belief[/i] about being short and people discriminating you for that, that's keeping you [i]perceiving[/i] they do. I don't really think people care about your height.

Do you really think it has to do with your height? It’s not like every one at church wants to date you or something. I know some short Guatemalans, they’re doing just fine.

People hate you because you're short? I'm not buying that reason.

I do not think that would be the reason

Those who discriminate against people for [i]any[/i] reason, are doing them a favor. They're showing them who NOT to be around. As uncomfortable as it might be, it's expedient.

Don't have anything to do with people like that, and look for people who accept you as you are. I'm one of them. Okay? 🤗

Your height should be er matter. Those who discriminate you are not the real friends. True friendship is not based on looks it's about what kind of person you are. I have learnt it recently that if you are happy and contented with yourself then it would never matter what people think. 🙃

being short i dont think has any thing to do with it,,could be the state you live in some states you cant buy friends,,,,and your age,,,,as a person gets older you loose all the friends you had in the past,,,

Work out.

Go out. No one is coming to your door, nor should they be expected to.

Skip church as a social setting. Try a dating app instead.

I like short people. Seems they cuddle very well.
You may want to change your avatar pic. Hard to see your face the way the pic is taken.

The Greed of Sw has stopped anyone from just messaging a person. I wanted to chat.............but won't do it publicly.

🤔 Have you tried wearing stilts?

Still looking for a job?

At least people on SW like you

Your ok for a lady at that 👍

PM me.

Headbutt them in the dick.

You've been posting this exact same thing since 2013 on EP

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