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Is it really that bad to only have associates and no close friends?

I'm starting to feel like that kinda suits me, I don't know. 🤔
SW-User
It is what it is.
I think we miss the connection of a good and close friend but if we don't have that ...
There is no stigma to it.
MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F
@SW-User mmm yeh😏… and besides I think eventually anyone will start to drive you crazy, even if they are a “close friend”, soo whatever. Lol.
SW-User
@MissNoahLenFoxx I think that's why I no longer have those.
We mutually drove each other crazy. 😂
MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. In fact I believe that’s how it is in adulthood for most people…. You’re lucky if you can keep old friends from high-school or college still around in your life. Other than that mostly all new experiences in adult life will gain you acquaintance after acquaintance. Enjoy it for what it is. I suppose over a long length of time you could gain closer friends out of the acquaintances you meet, but it takes time.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@MissNoahLenFoxx if you're u have a family, your friends tend to be parents of your children's friends.
JustNik · 51-55, F
I go through phases where I feel I must be living life wrong because every well-being anything ever written tells me a good life requires socialization. But I’m generally at peace. 🤷‍♀️ I think we can just let ourselves be content. 👍
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
I only have a few close friends. But its not easy for me to meet new people. Hell its not easy to even make new associates
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Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@PaleandPolluted well i know im not easy to be friends with. I really don't blame people either
Peril · F
Close friendships are one of the best things in life so it is a shame to miss out on that
pdockal · 56-60, M
Make the best of what comes you way
Don't over think it as that will drive your crazy
Saintweezer · 36-40, M
I’m in the same boat
Saintweezer · 36-40, M
I think you just age out@PaleandPolluted
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Saintweezer i fell out with that person thankfully
Saintweezer · 36-40, M
I can’t say thankfully but I had the same happen @PaleandPolluted
Lonelyandyb · 36-40, M
I mean,if your happy with that .. that’s all that matters
Do you want close friends?
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Colddeadhands i could do with 1
SW-User
If it suits you, let it. There are no real rules around that anyway.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SW-User i managed to get a bf years ago when I had no associates or friends to speak of at all. At least now I can make myself look a bit more "normal"
SW-User
Nope

Close friends aren’t necessarily good friends as one sometimes finds out

 
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