I lost hopes for relationship and friendship

It's hard to find genuine people in real life and online. You just have to take chances. Most importantly learn to love yourself and be your own best friend.

I feel like Leaving this site...
No friends in real life too

You need to start thinking about yourself different from being a "little puppy." On one hand, who doesn't like a little puppy? But, on the other hand, that's not a good look for a long-term human-to-human relationship.

As a man, there's a certain level of coldness that you have to accept in this world if you want to continue doing stuff in it. People just aren't going to care about you because you're nice or genuine or whatever. You have to be willing to work harder, to give more, and to sacrifice regularly to make your connections work.

Most people are less interested in who you are as opposed to what you can do for them. Even those who claim to want kindness and honesty and all that jazz will dump you if you're not fulfilling some other desire or need for them. That's the sad part about it. People are pretty self-involved, so if you want them around, you have to find a way of using that to keep your connections alive

A quick question, when said friend started to ignore you after you joined the gym, did you ever consider asking what's up?

Also thinking back to before the gym suggestion, do you think they encouraged you to develop confidence, guide you away from them?

When I was in the process of moving to my new apartment, I met someone. She acted like we were going to be BFFs. Then after she and another friend of mine helped me move, I never saw OR heard from her again. Blocked my number, blocked me on Discord, cut me out completely. :(

You are young, you'll find someone soon 🙂 (if you don't lock yourself in your room for the rest of your life that is.)

Doesn't look so straight as you have put up seems more behind the scene issues..could be has a jealous partner

Very hard.

many women are very fickle it seems, and men aren't even open for friendship