leave social media for a more "rural", under-the-radar, life (such some of those people who were our schoolmates, and we don't find traces of them on social media now).
[quote] we don't find traces of them on social media now[/quote]
I have searched for many on other sites, and only found one. And not exactly someone I knew very well.
Actually she recognized me on a junior high Facebook page. That was years ago. I no longer have a FB account. So even if she wanted to contact me it's no longer possible. This obscure site is the only site I'm on.
It means playing very little part in the rat race of life. Life is frenetic and to be able to pull back from it and be as unobtrusive as possible can be blissful. If necessary, go to work to earn enough to give you the basics of life and enjoy the calmness of an uncluttered world. So many people have a multitude of "unnecessary stuff" then are forced to compete in the rat race to pay for it all. Live frugally and be so much the happier for it.