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bijouxbroussard · F
By seeing it for what it is, in any given situation.
If I envy someone else, it means I need to work on myself.
If I feel jealousy within a relationship, I need to reevaluate the level of trust that exists between us.
If I envy someone else, it means I need to work on myself.
If I feel jealousy within a relationship, I need to reevaluate the level of trust that exists between us.
looping · 22-25
@bijouxbroussard that's fine in the long run. i need short term solutions.
bijouxbroussard · F
@looping I don’t know your particular situation. Jealousy is useless and destructive.
If it’s your jealousy, then it’s within your control.
Someone else’s jealousy, not so much, except for your putting distance between you.
If it’s your jealousy, then it’s within your control.
Someone else’s jealousy, not so much, except for your putting distance between you.
looping · 22-25
@bijouxbroussard i don't think jealousy is within my control at all.
bijouxbroussard · F
@looping Why not ? When you’re jealous, what is your biggest fear ?
looping · 22-25
@bijouxbroussard the fear of missing out i suppose. missing out on memories that people my age usually make. we only live once and each year i miss my chance on making special memories.
bijouxbroussard · F
@looping Being jealous of others doesn’t help that happen.
And it’s a waste of time that perhaps could be spent involved in activities allowing you to interact with others, making happy memories.
Like I said, I don’t know your particular situation.
But for myself when I feel envious about what others are doing I know I need to work on me.
That was how I first began volunteering.
And it’s a waste of time that perhaps could be spent involved in activities allowing you to interact with others, making happy memories.
Like I said, I don’t know your particular situation.
But for myself when I feel envious about what others are doing I know I need to work on me.
That was how I first began volunteering.
looping · 22-25
@bijouxbroussard i cant out logic my jealousy but i understand what you're saying