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Just had a date with a fool. Ever had one of those?

This guy thought that coffee and a chat would mean an all nighter. Never mind he had the social skills of a broom, his idea of conversation was all about fencing and archery, of which I know nothing, and he must have asked the prices of everything there. He suggested the place! I paid, which I don't mind, and didn't want to be embarrassed by him counting quarters or something.

He even told me his parents would love me, and that is the wrong thing to say when you've just met, and things are going awkwardly anyway.

Oh boy.

I just want a bath and a cup of good tea.
Ladywiththepants · 31-35, F
and when you turn him down again, 100% he will make some comment somewhere, either to his friends, or some online site, about girls never liking nice guys. 100% would bet my life on it.
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@Ladywiththepants: yeppppp. And I do like nice guys. But they have to have some gas in their tank. They have to be interesting!
@Ladywiththepants: LOL ! You nailed it. 👍🏽
freebird · F
I've met many a broom that I liked more than people
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@freebird: were they swiffers? I hear they're hot!
freebird · F
@CassandraFemale17: Swiffers, Libmans, Bissells.. yes I've met many a decent broom
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@freebird: lmao
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shaelan · 41-45, M
If the requisite chemistry had been present he could have talked about the ceiling tiles and you would have been enthralled. Just remember that it's not all about you.
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@shaelan: for sure it is not about me. If I ever run into him again, which I know I will, I'll talk ceiling tiles and see what happens.
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@HoraceGreenley: lol nice
shaelan · 41-45, M
@CassandraFemale17: Too hard to say whether he was just feeling really awkward in general or what, but you probably did a lot less damage to him by showing up, listening to him talk about fencing, and giving him the 'date experience' you did, even if it was awkward for you. This is what I mean by it's not all about you. Some guys might need to have a few positive learning experiences over the course of their lives in order to give them the confidence which others simply take for granted. Not everyone is automatically perfectly experienced dating material. You could feel good about it since you probably helped him out in some ways, and I hope you enjoy your tea.
SW-User
Did you tell him about yourself after he opened up to you?
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@Peekaboo: I wasn't interviewing him. It was the other way around, but rather stiffly. As though he was told to keep the conversation about me. It was like a list of questions rather than a free flow of convo. Other than that, it was all archery and fencing.
SW-User
@CassandraFemale17: Sounds boring. And that's why first dates should involve an activity.
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@Peekaboo: agreed!!!!!
Cosreal · 36-40
Awwww, I want to meet him!
Cosreal · 36-40
😁 Thanks, Cassie! You da homie! <3
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@Cosreal: Here he is
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@HoraceGreenley: lol. I didn't get that sense at all.

I just don't think he goes out too much
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I had a date with this "lady" one time. I meet her there, we chat, had a big steak dinner and she announces she's moving in the morning. I asked her why did she advertise and accept the date? Her response: " I just wanted someone to buy me dinner". 🙄 I almost threw my drink at her. The date ended right there.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@Livingwell:
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@HoraceGreenley: 😝😝😝
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@Livingwell: wow. That is beyond rude. She sounds so entitled
All riiiiigghhhttt, but I hate to see you let go of a winner. ;)
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@PaperHeart: hahahahahaha just my luck he will be the next Zuckerburg, or Elon Musk.

Ah who cares. I wouldn't go out with them either.
Wellllllll, maybe Elon.
Lol
@CassandraFemale17: Well of course Elon! Changing the course of humanity and ecological stability - nothing hotter than that, if you ask me.
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@PaperHeart: mhmmmmmm
NCCindy · 36-40, F
Been there, done that ... have the tee shirt !!!
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@HoraceGreenley: Nice, lol
NCCindy · 36-40, F
@CassandraFemale17: Probably every halfway cute girl has been there at least once ... join the sisterhood. !!!
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@NCCindy: It happens to guys too!
SW-User
Oh geeeze , I'm sorry you went through that ... sounds awful
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
sounds to me like you think your shit doesent stink and fencing and archery that's interesting isn't he supposed to talk to you about his interests
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CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@seeandhear: that is probably my date's screen name here. .... lol
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youtube · 80-89, M
well this is why i have no sexuality
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Dodged a bullet if you ask me.
S2dio57 · M
A broom 🤣😂
MikefromEP · 51-55, M
Maybe you were his first date?
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@MikefromEP: that's too bad. I have a younger brother that is so shy it's painful for him. Yet, my brother, my sister and I are nothing like that
CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F
@MikefromEP: my twin bro, my sis, and I are not shy. Just the youngest
MikefromEP · 51-55, M
@CassandraFemale17: Glad you never had to deal with being shy. It is a horrible feeling
MikefromEP · 51-55, M
@HoraceGreenley: TMI lol
bhatjc · 46-50, M
looks like you need a new guy
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Sounds like he needs to get out more
Hoo, boy ! Yes, been there...🙄

 
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