Is it bad that I have EVER been in a physical fight?

To put it bluntly yes you are.

You’ve always been a very weak person. Even as could you let us push you around take your things and all that so we took advantage of that. Even as adults it’s sad and pathetic. You let some of our male cousins disrespect and talk to you any kind of way and YOU DONT DO A DAMN THING ABOUT IT. You let people push you around and let them disrespect you as a young woman and that’s pathetic. And you wondering why people never respect you? You’re going to be a sad, lonely, weak cowardly loser during adult!

So much toxic masculinity in the comments. It’s pathetic and gross.

You don’t need to get into a fight to be an adult or to have an outlet for aggression.

If you want to stand up for yourself like an emotionally mature adult, be assertive. Not physically violent. Emotionally stunted adults and children fight.

No, just means you're not violent/into that kind of drama. Sometimes it's good to stand up for yourself/defend yourself, but it's also good to avoid an actual physical confrontation and try to figure out a better way around it.

I don't think anyone in my family has ever been in a physical fight.