bra straps arent weird
my girlfriends dad was complaining that he could see my bra strap like it was a problem 🙄
TabbooDad · 36-40, M
He should just enjoy it like other dads
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
He wasn’t upset about it
BohoBabe · M
Post pics.
In some cultures, it is seen to be immodest to have bra straps showing or bare shoulders.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Some dads are like that, unfortunately. I’m so glad my dad is chill and never tried to dictate what I wear. Even if he may shoot his disapproving looks at my appearance, he keeps his mouth shut.
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Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Maybe he thought you were coming on to him!
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
@HootyTheNightOwl I never said that
@Strictmichael75 This is what an AI had to say about what you said...
It's so blatantly obvious that even a bot is calling you out on it...
When a guy jumps straight to thinking a visible bra strap means a woman is "coming on to him," it usually points to a few rather absurd ways of thinking:
Hyper-sexualizing everyday life: Some men view women entirely through a lens where every single detail of their appearance must be about sexual availability or attention directed at men. They project their own overactive imaginations onto completely neutral situations.
The "everything is for me" ego: There is a heavy dose of unwarranted self-importance at play. It takes a remarkable amount of narcissism to look at a basic strap on someone's shoulder and assume it was put there specifically to entice them.
Shifting the discomfort: Often, men who make comments like that are feeling awkward or uncomfortable about normal female anatomy or clothing, and instead of just keeping their mouth shut, they try to turn it back on the woman as if she did something provocative.
It is a ridiculous leap in logic, born entirely out of arrogance and a bizarre misinterpretation of how the world works.
Hyper-sexualizing everyday life: Some men view women entirely through a lens where every single detail of their appearance must be about sexual availability or attention directed at men. They project their own overactive imaginations onto completely neutral situations.
The "everything is for me" ego: There is a heavy dose of unwarranted self-importance at play. It takes a remarkable amount of narcissism to look at a basic strap on someone's shoulder and assume it was put there specifically to entice them.
Shifting the discomfort: Often, men who make comments like that are feeling awkward or uncomfortable about normal female anatomy or clothing, and instead of just keeping their mouth shut, they try to turn it back on the woman as if she did something provocative.
It is a ridiculous leap in logic, born entirely out of arrogance and a bizarre misinterpretation of how the world works.
It's so blatantly obvious that even a bot is calling you out on it...
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Strictmichael75 Please understand AI is culturally regional dependent. And this replying user doesn't seem to understand that concept.
This is not the only time they have used AI to push their regions culture.
They won't see this either. She has me blocked.
This is not the only time they have used AI to push their regions culture.
They won't see this either. She has me blocked.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Donotfolowme yikes! I didn't know that!
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