I know I’ve talked about this sort of thing sooooo many times before I’m sorry to be boring, I...

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I know I’ve talked about this sort of thing sooooo many times before

I’m sorry to be boring, I think I just need to vent. One of our friends said something pretty harsh to me on Saturday about how my girlf looks/dresses. It hurt but I know it shouldn’t. I know I should say something to them and stick up for her, but...

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tobynshorty · 51-55, F

It’s none of their business.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I know, it just gets to me a little. Thanks. @tobynshorty

YoMomma ·

Well too be fair she dresses tacky sometimes just because some things are brand names doesn't mean they are suitable or look good together .. i think looks and style are too important to you and people don't always mean anything mean by commenting 😬 just speaking their mind but i guess it can be offensive if it's a sensitive topic or issue for you 😬😏 she dresses how she likes and it's not conventional.. but that's just who she is 😬😏 my mom is also a tacky dresser at times 😏

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YoMomma ·

@Strongtea maybe.. who knows.. maybe she just needs a different influence for style (aside from her mom) eh? ☺

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yes maybe, being totally honest, I really like her style mostly, sometimes she wears things that are unflattering for her. All the negative comments about her say things like ‘she dresses like a grandma’ or ‘she looks like the most boring person ever’ or she’s snobby/stuck up/tacky etc but she is really obsessed with what she wears and I suppose I don’t really want her to change too much. I just wish people would like what she wears. Maybe we need everyone else to change lol! @YoMomma

YoMomma ·

@Strongtea ah well.. as long as you are both happy then who cares? 😅

Tumbleweed · F

I think I remember a post you made about how she dresses, am I right?
She should know by now how this makes you feel and tone it down a bit.

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Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thanks for that, she’s a different person now and so am I. Your advice is really appreciated. 😊@Tumbleweed

Tumbleweed · F

@Strongtea Be happy, love! Yall got this!! 🫂

Strongtea · 22-25, M

😊👍😊👍@Tumbleweed

calicuz · 56-60, M

You don't need friends like that. The reason yhey say what they want is because they know you won't say anything in return. No one needs friends who don't act like friends.