I know I’ve talked about this sort of thing sooooo many times before

I’m sorry to be boring, I think I just need to vent.

One of our friends said something pretty harsh to me on Saturday about how my girlf looks/dresses. It hurt but I know it shouldn’t. I know I should say something to them and stick up for her, but we don’t have many friends and I don’t want to lose any more.

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Tumbleweed · F

I think I remember a post you made about how she dresses, am I right?
She should know by now how this makes you feel and tone it down a bit.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

I think she actually dresses really nicely, I think when I was younger I made a post (which I now think is really stupid/cringe) where I said I didn’t like it. She dresses pretty ‘sensibly’ maybe not very cool compared to other girls and people from school (we’re not at school anymore, but still see people) can be kind of cruel about her. She wasn’t super nice to everyone at school if I’m being honest, so I know people think she deserves it. I know I shouldn’t let it change how I feel about her. @Tumbleweed

Tumbleweed · F

@Strongtea Ok, I see now. Well if she's happy with herself and you're happy with her, then let them hate. And so what if she wasn't always nice to people? We ALL have our faults so whoever is judging her fails to realize that they aren't perfect either. And I agree with Matt, kiss her in front of them & let them them hate! 🤗

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thanks for that, she’s a different person now and so am I. Your advice is really appreciated. 😊@Tumbleweed

Tumbleweed · F

@Strongtea Be happy, love! Yall got this!! 🫂

Strongtea · 22-25, M

😊👍😊👍@Tumbleweed