In your opinion, does this girl have good or bad fashion sense/style (I know it’s quite hard to see the whole outfit.)

Oh, erm we were kinda on our date day@BlueVeins

Ok, the outfit was more ‘put together’ than it looks, the photo doesn’t quite do it justice. She had a Ralph Lauren polo and Ralph Lauren cable knit jumper (and a joules gilet underneath the jacket as it was cold) This is her dressed for a nice lunch out.@CrazyMusicLover

It is vintage, she collects designer handbags@CrazyMusicLover

@Strongtea What's the brand?

I’m not sure, it’s not something crazy expensive, she has a lot of Radley bags@CrazyMusicLover

Hey thanks for that, it’s a long story why I asked this question. She’s my girlf and she is very into how she dresses, but not everyone agrees with her style. She is actually wearing some very expensive items (Ralph Lauren) but she would like your kind words.@Coralmist

@Strongtea it doesn’t show any of her curves

She doesn’t really like to show off,she kinda hates girls that do@Monalisaa1986

@Strongtea well it’s not showing off it’s just showing what she has

Oh, ok. That sounds like a diss?@Ceinwyn

@Strongtea If you say so

No, I just thought you were dissing. Sorry for taking it that way!@Ceinwyn

@Strongtea oh 😳

Again thanks for being honest, I’m just a bit gutted that my girlf comes across as badly dressed. Hopefully just a bad photo as those are both outfits that she regularly wears.@SStarfish

@Strongtea ok 😬

Yes I do get what you mean, she has great taste in individual items, but often doesn’t put them together well@YellowJello

I kinda deleted them by accident as I didn’t realise (long story) they were of my girlf but everyone slated her outfits 😢@ninalanyon

@Strongtea [quote]I didn’t realise (long story) they were of my girlf[/quote]
That must be quite a story. :-)

Haha! I can see that looks strange! I realised they were of my girlf! Just not that I’d deleted them@ninalanyon

Thankyou, she’s my girlf, so it means a lot that you took the time to comment. Those are her favourite shoes so she would be very pleased!@onewithshoes

Ok @SheCallsMeCrushDaddy

To be honest she does talk about being comfortable as something that is incredibly important but she’s also very looks obsessed. Shopping for clothes is her favourite thing to do!@DearAmbellina2113

Thanks! That’s my girlf so it’s super nice that u like. It was the first day she had worn those shoes so she tucked the pants in as they hurt a little.@Spoiledbrat

I find it really interesting@HannahSky

@Strongtea just giggling. The jacket is old style

I suppose it’s a bit sensible, it’s her favourite waterproof.@Sevendays

@Strongtea that's what matters

Ok, you are right@Lilymoon

@Strongtea [quote]She’s told quite a few people that they were dressed badly and they told her to look at herself.[/quote]
Commenting negatively on someone's choice of clothing is pretty much guaranteed to get a negative response unless it is very diplomatically worded.
[quote]not sure where to go from here[/quote]
Perhaps you both should just examine the reasons why each of you dress the way you do. Try to identify any pressures from family, friends, employers, colleagues, church, clubs, etc. Then decide which, if any, of those pressures are good for you.
[quote]she does dress very conservative[/quote]
What counts as conservative is culturally determined. Women wearing trousers in the UK and America used to be regarded as scandalous, and not really that long ago. And the influence of those times are still with us; for instance see this from 2021:
[quote]For the first time in its 182-year history, women will be allowed to wear trousers to the Henley Royal Regatta.

The Oxfordshire -based rowing event has updated its dress code for the Stewards’ Enclosure, so women can wear “jackets or blazers with trousers, or trouser suits”, as well as jumpsuits and culottes – but only if hemlines fall below the knee.
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Incredibly, a 200-year ban on women wearing trousers in France was only overturned in 2013. Of course, it hadn’t been strictly policed, but it was still there. Plenty of schools still enforce a skirts-only uniform for girls, and female flight attendants on Virgin Atlantic couldn’t wear trousers until 2019.[/quote]
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/fashion/henley-regatta-women-trousers-sexism-b1901589.html

Wow! That’s incredible! I know we shouldn’t make negative comments about what other people wear, but she has strong opinions on clothing/fashion. I’ll think about what you have said though@ninalanyon

@Strongtea Don't forget the other plausible scenario: your girlfriend really is dressing exactly how she wants and the rest of us are just over thinking everything. My excuse is that I'm an engineer and I was paid to work out all the gory details, the habit is hard to break!

Do what is right for the two of you, regardless of the opinionated people here (myself included of course!).