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Long talk with my boy

Oh my tiny tornado. I love him so much and I felt so bad for yelling at him last night. I think it's the first and hopefully the only time I ever do. I am so mad at myself right now

So i sat him down to have a daddy son meeting.

I told him how sorry I was that I yelled and I'm I didn't mean to. Bi was just really scared and worried about Sissy

He said it was ok and he knew he did a bad thing last night.

I asked him why he went in there

Because the door was open

Bubby come on you know better.

Well I just wanted to look dad her room is so cool

I get that but why did you touch her violin.

He looks down at the ground

Because mommy gave it to her and I don't have anything special mommy gave me before she moved away.

His boy just broke me. I gave him the biggest hug and we both cried.

I took the day off work because she is still asleep and I didn't sleep at all last night. So I let him stay home as well.

I won't do it again.

I know bubby it's ok

I was going to get on to him about the once again unplugging her Air pods but that can wait for another day.
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4meAndyou · F
Poor little sweetheart. He is upset about his Mom abandoning him, and she was such a C word that she didn't even give him something nice to remember her by.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@4meAndyou this is so hard for me because I don't know how to fix this for him.
Nebula · 41-45, F
Awww ☹ you're a good Dad
@RockerDad i foster adopted my son as a single dad , and every parenting decision I made was scrutinized and criticized by the social worker. Every month, I would get a copy of her report, which was page after page of what a bad parent I was. Never anything positive. It sort of paralyzed me every time I had to make a decision about anything. Parenting is messy sometimes,, and it is never the way it is on TV, where everything is solved at the end of the episode. Also, being a single dad, everyone around me felt like they had the right to weigh in on how I should parent my child. Even though it was well-meaning, it really bothered me. At the end of the day, I’m sure you make ten right decisions for every wrong one. You’re a good dad, because you care about being good dad. Don’t let other people’s bullshit get into your head.
@Cigarguy101 that is a huge pitfall you need to learn to avoid.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@RockerDad wow I'm sorry that happened to you. People can be cruel and just say what ever in on their mind. I think social media was taken everyone's care away.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Your parenting skills are spot on!!
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@Quimliqer thank you. It sure does feel that way. These past 24 hours have been so hard.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
@Cigarguy101 We have those moments where one reaches the limit and the response is less than stellar. Don’t beat yourself up over it, we’re human.
Summer2025 · F
you are a bad father yelling at your son for playing with a toy. who cares if it was is sisters toy. they should share everything.
why do you not let your son keep things his mom gave him. give him back to her he does't want to be with you it's very clear
@Summer2025 there isn’t a parent here doesnt beat themselves up for how they handled some situation. We aren’t perfect, all we can do is try our best
Levenrack · 46-50, M
@RockerDad Hey guy. Don't even try with her. She is broken and well beyond fixing. Good heart you got though.

 
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