For those who have had pregnancies in their lives

For the guys - did your pregnant partner 'celebrate you' as being part of the pregnancy journey, or were you disregarded and treated as an afterthought?

For the girls - how did you make your pregnancies inclusive of your man so he felt and knew he was still loved, valued and an integral part of your shared parenthood journey or did you make it all about you?

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exexec · 70-79, C

We had two pregnancies, and my wife made sure I was taken care of emotionally both times. The first one was after we had been married only a couple of years, so we were almost newly-weds. The second was six years later, but that time I was included in all the prep for delivery, taking a course with her, in the delivery room, and so forth.

Monalisasmith86 · 41-45, F

@exexec what did you do with the first child do you still have her?

exexec · 70-79, C

@Monalisasmith86 He and his family moved to another city last year, but we see them often.

ineedadrink · 51-55, M

Dude, why do most of your posts sound like you're a whiny incel type?

We were a normal first time couple, figuring things out as we went along, together.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@ineedadrink I'm not an incel, just a man who's been really badly burn't by women and saying it like it is based on my own experiences. I know I speak only for myself because most people have no dramas with things related to sex, dating, and relationships which includes the journey though a pregnancy into parenthood for those people who choose (or don't) to become parents either with or without a (or their) partner involved.

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